Pregnancy Without Intercourse?

[sbrooke]

Four days ago my partner and I came very close to having sex. It would have been my first time and I did not really want to do it. He tried to put his penis into my vagina and couldn't get it so he stopped after about a minute. His penis did not go into my vagina but I think it touched near/on it. He had cummed earlier. I asked my friends if I could become pregnant even without sex and they said no, that it is not possible because that the sperm may be good 'swimmers' but they aren't that strong. They also said that those who claim to have gotten pregnant without sex probably had sex and just didn't count that. I had my last period about 3 weeks ago and I think that it could come in about a week. But, my periods are irregular so I am not positive. I also have been having back ache, headaches, tiredness and cramps but I am wondering if they might just be from stress and because my period could come in a week (when I have my period I have symptoms starting about a week before). My partner has had unprotected sex before and the girl did not become pregnant.
I am really stressed and worried because I don't know if I can become pregnant from this or what the likelihood of this would be. Insight would be great!

[healthnuttt]

I am 20 years old and I am a pregnant virgin. I found out I was pregnant 6 months into my pregnancy. I also was very shocked, I went to the doctor because my stomach was bloated and they gave me a pregnancy test and it came back positive. I never had sex, vomitted, or felt morning sickness. I was intimate with my boyfriend and he came near my vagina but never inside. The new hit me like a ton of bricks I was hoping to be a virgin bride. My family doesn't believe at all.

[Nikki102489]

Cumming near or in your vigina your still have a chance of pregnancy. If you’re not looking to get pregnant people really need to stop letting their partners *** near their private part. It’s a low chance of getting pregnant without actually going inside but cumming near It ? Yes there is a chance some can get inside. You’re basically still a virgin because your never had INTERCORSE once his penis goes inside of you? Then yes you are no longer one but until then? To me? In my book? Your still a virgin. Just because his *** got in you and his penis didn’t? Then like I said to me your still a virgin until you have intercorse

[trijoya]

ohkk i have missed a period..didnot had intercoursed...infact we juz had kissing and we were close that to we were in full clothes..so is it possible dat i m pergnanat?

[fi4]

Thank you for posting this ive been through a terrible time. Went to hospital last Sept for xray but was told I was pregnant they did two tests I had a third positive but by the time I got to docs there was a time lapse and her test was negative.  I had relationship but we did not have intercourse.  Doc did not believe I was ever pregnant e.g there needed to be penetration. I was not well and had to go back to her at 7.5 weeks all of this stuff fell out of me miscarriage
She still did not believe me
Had to get second opinion with all of this I have just started counselling and the counsellor my first session had to sit me down and convince me I was pregnant and had to grieve I have cried all weekend
I wish more people would speak out like you. I was and am a virgin as well.  Been trying to tell the father but that is another story

[sumisan]

hey....wat hapoened...??? did u concieve....???

[dianne624]

Hi Tammy1965A. I was also a virgin when I got pregnant. I was five and a half months pregnant when I found out. I lost some friends because they thought I was lying. Even my own family found it hard to believe. I was so frustrated because it was my dream to become a virgin bride. I was twenty-seven when my baby was conceived. I thought it was alright to be intimate with my boyfriend because I was old enough, and my last ex left me for being such a prude. I'm lucky that my baby's father stayed with me. I wish more people in the same situation would speak out.

[louieforlaughs]

no to mention that just because he had unprotected sex before and was lucky she didn't get pregnant doesn't mean it may not happen to you. not to mention if you know he's had unprotected sex before you should certainly use a condom for your own protection. Cause sleeping with him unprotected is like sleeping with her unprotected. be safe.

[Tammy1965A]

Kate_85. I was conceived without my parents having sexual intercourse. My mother was a virgin. She was 5 months pregnant when she found out she was pregnant and still a virgin that day she found out. Why test for pregnancy if a virgin right? Thats why it took her so long to get tested. I am 47 years old. My mother and birth father hadn't talked in 47 years. Both of my parents explained this to me... When my mom told my birth father she was pregnant, he fled because they didn't have intercourse and he thought she was trying to wrap him around her finger to get married because she was pregnant. What happened was, my parents were kissing, dad got her underwear off and placed it next to his penis, as excited as he was, his penis was dripping, my mom said she didn't want to have sex (his penis never touched her anywhere), she put her underwear back on and his pre-*** on her underwear touched her and climbed up her from there and 9 months later, I was born. It happens and I am living proof :-) So women beware right? This does happen.

[Franky91]

Only if the penis was inside you can you get pregnant

[Kate_85]

It's very rare, but it can happen...when I was 21 I got pregnant and I never had sex, my boyfriend just came in that vacinity...and before anyone says anything, the reason I am completely sure is because he had had testicular cancer and some other problems down there and it was difficult for him to get an erection and keep it without coming straight away, so we never actually had sex because the minute he got an erection he would just come. We would try all the time but it would always happen. So as much as we wanted it, he was embarrassed and we'd barely attempt it, and somehow I got pregnant by him (no I never cheated lol)..so it can happen, but it's very, very, very rare.

[Momeetobe89]

He had to actually *** inside of you. Sperm dies shortly exposed in oxygen. You thinking too much about it can cause pregnant like symptoms. Back aches related to pregnancy typically dont happen in the beginning. Sperm cant crawl from the outside of your vagina to the inside and all the way to combine with your egg. You dont need to worry about pregnancy unless he cumsinside you, but simple exposure can welcome stds.. id suggest using condoms until u know more about your body and sex. Not intended to be rude, but you should really research and read to see how everything works out.

[Ari_L_P89]

its EXTREAMLY  unlikely to become pregnant withput intercourse in which your.partner does not go inside of you and *** in you. even more so if your hymen is still intact however it has happened before.  

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_you_get_pregnant_if_you_are_a_virgin#page19

[sbrooke]

is it possible for the sperm to 'swim' into the vagina from the outside?

[miley24]

the penis has to be inserted into the vagina....u have to be cummed in or precumed....

[PriceFamily91611]

YOU CANT GET PREGNANT UNLESS YOU HAVE SEX AND CUMS IN YOU