Regarding my first experience

[Rosy_123]

I'm 20 yrs old and I know I might sound stupid for this but still I wanna ask bcz it was my first time...
So, I'm still a virgin and have not done sex yet but this time me and my boyfriend were cuddling and he did lil' bit of fingering to me.....not that hard....he inserted only the first tip of his index finger and that was enough for me to pain....So, I said to stop him after doing it fr 2-3 times...

Now the question is he doesn't remember properly tht whether he masturbated or not before fingering me....but as much as I remember his hands and fingers were dry...and moreover he had his condom whenever he was having his discharge...

But after coming back frm the hotel....after 1-2 days I started getting cramps in my lower abdomen...and now I'm dammmmnnnnn scared.......plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me......
I should not be pregnant....plzzzzz clear my doubt for these cramps.....can I be pregnant???.......plzzzzz help me someone.....:(

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Now when  

[auntiejessi]

No, you won't get pregnant from this. Even if he had touched himself before fingering you, you wouldn't get pregnant that way.

It really does take the penis going into the vagina to get pregnant, most often with ejaculation, but not always.

If you are getting closer to actually having sex, now is the time to talk to him and to your doctor about your birth control options.

For all kinds of info about sex, birth control, preventing pregnancy -

https://www.iwannaknow.org/

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens

[Rosy_123]

Thank you so much for taking ur time and answering me.....this means the world to me...... thank you very much .
But then why am I getting these cramps in my lower abdomen???????:((

[PrivateRis]

Omg hi, let’s keep up! Same thing is happening to me!! I’m a virgin but I had I think dry semen on hand and inserted it way later but I think I washed I was on my period and a couple days later after period ended I was cramping bad back pains and constipation with no eating. Update me sweetheart