Pregnancy help!

[KJM268]

Hello,

My girlfriend is 18 and I'm 19. We always use condoms and never tried sex without one. She is not on birth control since we just started dating and have only did it 3 times. For a while now, she has had irregular periods where her cycle varies anywhere from 23-29 days etc.

We had sex and we used a condom and the condom had a spermacidal lubricant on it but she is officially 9 days late with her period.

I don't understand why she could be late. She has no symptoms of pregnancy at all and she is saying her "gut feeling" is telling her she isn't pregnant. We're taking a test tonight and then she will take the 2nd one in the morning when she wakes up.

I just recently found out she has a bad eating disorder then has flared up again recently and has been stressing a lot and has a habit of holding it in to the point where she was almost close to a mental breakdown. Also, I found out she did Molly a couple of times and she did it a last week as well, most recently. She works late days at a vet where she could come home as late as 2 am after going into work at 4. Her hours vary with work and then on top of work, she gets very little sleep since she has school to attend that morning.

The only thing I can think of is that she went on top of me last week (she was already a day late at this point but didn't tell me since she thought it was just her irregular period) and "sat" on my penis for 10 seconds and I pushed her off. I NEVER went inside her, it only rubbed her vagina but I don't even think the head touched it, only my shaft and I do not noticeably pre-*** (I know every guy pre-cums, but you literally can't tell I do, nor can I) but I heard even in a situation like this, it's very unlikely she can get pregnant this way on top of the spermicidal lube.

Thanks for help, but should there be any major cause for concern that she could be pregnant?

[EllaMari]

You are in the clear for pregnancy but you need to discuss treatment options for her eating disorder. She needs to go see a doctor to get evaluated.

[KJM268]

Hey guys,

She tested this morning as well, first urine and it was negative. She used the 6-day early First Response test. Today would mark about 10 days being late with no symptoms of pregnancy besides a missed period but a lot of stress on her part and a messed up speed schedule.

With 2 negatives last night and this morning, should we be in the clear?

[rebeccaann11]

No. Just test in morning, if it comes up neg she probably isnt pregnant.

[KJM268]

quick update:

Took the test and it was negative. She took it around 11:15 pm and will take one more tomorrow morning. Only thing is, she had like 2 glasses of water before the test. Would that effect it?

[EllaMari]

Not significant. A test will be accurate at this point whether you take it in the morning.

[KJM268]

Is there a chance she could be pregnant though? A significant chance?

[EllaMari]

Eating disorders often cause women to miss their periods. She needs to get help ASAP. This is a sign her body may be shutting down organ function to survive.