32 wks and everything is on my nerves

[hrenee]

is anyone else out there feel the same way.  i have been in the worse mood for about 3 days now.  it seems like everything and everyone is making me f***ing crazy..  i have not gotten along with my husband now for 3 days i dont know if maybe we may be seeing each other to much and may need some time apart.  i feel like i have just have had it.  

[asia4]

im telling u, im so tired of this ****. We went today to get kitchen cabinets, it took us a long time but we are spending a lot of money and prefer be sure we get what we want and not be surprised later. After few hours he wasnt to happy, oh well, guess what? Im 22 lb more then ussual and spend the same amount time in the store he did. We are not getting that kitchen just for me!!! Anyway.......get back home and get into another fight, Im so F... tired of this. I just want have this baby and get few beers to relax!!!!!!!!!!!! Im telling me the first day I can relax with beer and cigaret I will have 10 of them!!!! Then everybody around me can do whatever they want!!!
Mariam_z- I can see your husband its even better then mine!!!!:)) If mine wants something- DO IT, honey. The truth is after we get back from the store Im doing laundry. I folded 2 of them so far, it looks all his stuff, nothing mine. What is going on? I need to start charging him:)

[mariam_z]

This entire pregnancy has been hard for my entire support system.  I am the proudest B***H.  its horrible!!! i know there are some changes I have to make but I think its all from the pregnancy.  I hope I get a little nicer after the  baby comes.  I dont remember being like this with my first pregnancy.

I also feel like my husband doesnt care that much with this pregnancy as he did with our first.  Putting the crib together was like a "task" r ather than a moment to share together.   We fight a lot, which isnt good for our son, but I really cant get a grip on mynerves.

You ladies are not alone, thats for sure.  If you have any tips, please share!!!!

asia: i love your post about laundry, there is a huge basket, and he asks me to wash a pair of boxers for tomorrow... its horrible.  

[asia4]

oh my GOD!! I was thinking it just me!!!! Im ready to kill my husband and everybody who will not agree with me. Everything is driving me crazy, I really mean everything. And I have a feeling he do not care, he is just waiting when I will be in better mood. I dont want to be in better mood, I want things be done my way and thats it. In one way I understand its pregnancy but in other way they do not try understand us, there is only few weeks left and everything needs to be ready. They dont care because they think baby needs diapers and food, nothing else. I know what Im talking about because I have son already. Guys dont care if its clean or not, they dont care if laundry it done or not, if there is dinner. They can do laundry- meaning put one jeans and 2 t-shirt to washing machine (this is what they need for next day, they dont care there is full basket), dry it and leave in there for next 5 days, not folding. Dinner no problem, we can order, easy enough. Who cares that u paying for it, they dont care if all bills will be paid. If we will not have enouhg money we will not pay for water this month, we will do it next month. Cleaning? Dishes are clean? if yes good, was vacumed 2 weeks ago that perfectly fine. Windows? Do they needs to be clean? NO!!!!

[GermanBaby]

Latley some days are "better" than others. The "littlest" thing can change my mood 180 degrees. I am not sure if it it depression symptoms, anxiety, hormones or what.

I ordered a book in the mail for my husband called "The Postpartum Husband Practical solutions for living with PPD" by Karen Kleiman 2000. My husband has no experience or idea about "depression, anxiety etc" during and after pregnancy so I thought this book may help. It is amazing and so easy to read with "chapters" only being 1-2 pages. I think the "solutions" are useful for any situation not just PPD - anything from exhaustion to just basic day to day living and communicating in a marriage. It gives pointers as to why and what to say, do and what not to say or do. I highly recommend this book. My husband and I read it together.

Not sure if this is what you were looking for but it is/has been helping me and my husband understand the emotional rollar coster of pregnancy :-)

[bryanarae]

hello!!! welcome to my situation too! everything is pissing me off. its hard because i have a 3 y/o son and he means the world to me, but recently, like the last 1 - 2 weeks he has been driving me crazy! my husband and i arent getting along that much cause i just cant seem to get a grip on my nerves. i have no idea what it is, but i wish i could control it.
i hope it gets better for you and know youre not alone!