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overreacting?
Would you be hurt if you kept finding naked pics of girls on your bfs or husband's computer? He doesn't even try to hide it from me anymore. I'm so hurt almost 37 weeks pregnant huge unattractive. What to do? I just act like it doesn't bother me then go into a room and cry.
Like porn or does he save the photos to the computer?
Porn or exes??
If its porn that you find in loke the history then no I wouldn't be mad. But if my guy was saving naked photos to the computer I'd be mad.
if it was porn I wouldn't care but there's no way in hell I'd let him have a pic of his ex
If it is port I wouldn't pay to much of attention but if they are from x's yeah I would be so pist off..
If it was exes, I would leave him. If it was porn (which ive been dealing with too) I talked to him and told him how it made me feel and he still did it, just tried to hide it more. He now knows its not the porn that bothers me, its the fact that it makes me feel more ugly, fat and unwanted them being pregnant already makes me feel. Thats my personal experience. I definitely wouldn't hide your feelings. At least talk to him about it first.
It's not porn and it's not in his history it's in a folder in his computer. It's girls he used to talk to before or sleep with and some porn. I just pretend I'm not sad because some of you say you'd leave but I'm due this month where am I going to go and divorce over pics? That's a bit much I think
Ish ish, no don't give him the pleasure of enjoying such stuff since you're pregnant!! Oh No. Ad put up a fight and command an explanation. It's always a two way street. Please stand up for your dignity. :) good luck dear.
Or I would delete it and see what he does. If he confronts me the bitter truth is that he doesn't care about me. It should not offend him since I am there and he should see me and only me. Oh dear
Umm id delete all those pics if they weren't porn. My man knows better not to have any ex gf pics! Thats messed up. Id delete them and not say a thing. If he brings it up id say you should have never kept them. Thats disrespectful.
Iya Hun. Am 14 weeks along and I keep finding naked pics of girls with a perfect body on my boyfriends phone I have asked him to delete them but am to scared to ask him if he has as I don't want to cause a arguement I don't think your over reacting at all be brave and if your not happy ask him to delete them in front of you and I highly doubt your unattractive I don't know what you look like but I can tell your beautiful xxx
Listen my husband and I have been married for over 5 years and the only porn allowed is the stuff we watch together! My husband loves me pregnant. Can't keep his hands off of me! And if your husband is keeping his hands on his pants and his eyes on other women it's the same as cheating because sweetheart he's not thinking of you. To me he might as well be screwing someone else because that's basically what he's doing. Exes are ridiculously off limits. That's why they are exes right?!? So what if you are about to give birth? Ask yourself if it's a boy would you want him to treat his wife like that and if it's a girl would you want her husband to do this to her??
Hell no I would flip out on my husband if he had naked pictures of exs and women he's slept with in the past that is very disrespectful to you and I think you should honestly talk to him about it don't let him keep doing it if it's causing you so much pain
WhiteJasmineRose3 I would feel hurt and unloved and pissed off I would delete them and I would ask My bf why does he have rude pics on his phone of girls don't you love me ent I good enough and I wouldnt talk to him for a couple weeks I'd make him no
My fiance and i watch porn. It still hurts because i know i dont look that good, but if i was against it hed stop. As far as the pics go id delete them without a word. That id harsh and unfair to you, itd be like you having pics of exes with bigger junk. Hed be upset.
in the beginning of my pregnancy I found a naked picture of a girl in my boyfriends deleted messages. I was totally shocked and my feelings were so hurt...I thought how could he do this to me I felt like he had cheated on me. So I know your pain. But I talked to my boyfriend and explained to him that I didn't feel comfortable with him looking at other women or porn without me we even went to a couple of counseling sessions where we further discussed/redefined our boundaries. Today I trust him and really feel like that was a bump in the road in our relationship that we were able to get over....basically I think that you should communicate wih your significant other and if that takes a third party (such as a counselor) to help you you need to do it asap
Dude, if I found a picture of one of my husband's exs on his computer he'd be on the curb. There's no way...I understand where your coming from being due soon and all but you don't have a family member close around you or anything?
Youre not overreacting at all . Maybe not a divorce but youre not saying nothing and you know those girls had history with him that's disrespectfu. Think about your ddignity and that youre beautiful youre mother nature . Show some balls cause guys seem to lack them . And tell him how you feel about tgat dont hold back you have all the right . Youll see his true feelings once you comfrint him
Unfortunately I don't have family to turn to and I won't allow myself to get frustrated or angry at him because I have high blood pressure and my doctor is monitoring me for preeclempsia. I talked to my husband about this before but now I will tell him I will do whatever he does meaning talk to exs talk to guys have naked pics on my phone do whatever I want. :( I hate my marriage
I'll pray for yuh girly. I'm so sorry :/
No dont fall to what he is and waste your time with guys tgat are not worth your time . Give your valuable time to your baby and yourself . If youve called his attention and he hasnt changed hes the problem . Even if you dont want to feel that way i think you still do because its hurtful. :( you need to tell him its disrepectful. Dont go on without saying a word be the bigger person .no girl deserves to go through this . I hope you value yourself enough to love yourself and your baby . Stand up foryourself the smart way !
Like what some of these ladies suggested, I would delete the pictures from his computer
I would not allow my husband to have naked pictures. Porn or exes! It's extremely disrespectful and uncalled for. Personally I'd delete them and let him know how I really feel. If he argued Id boot him. Please please please stand up for
Yourself. You & your baby deserve better.
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