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Hubby is being a huge jerk

Tpying while crying so might not make sense .. Made with hubby for 13 years and things were wonderful etc ... Now I'm 33 weeks pregnsnt and he's always yelling at me. , saying I'm a bad mom ( have three year old too ) calls me lazy . Stupid, ***** , says I should be beat etc ... I work 12 hour shifts , do all house work , cooking etc... He won't kiss me , hug me , sleep in same bed etc ... He's never done this before in 13 years .. Wtf is going on ? Help
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Next time he gets abusive, call the cops. I agree there is NO excuse for his behavior. If he has something medical going on, it needs to be addressed, pronto. Good for you for leaving!
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I'm glad to hear you left. You really didn't need that stress. Since your away from him try to relax and focus on your daughter and little person. Really consider therapy. I've been in a abusive relationship before. And sadly I stayed stuck in it because he always apologized and I always made excuses for him. But there really is no excuse. The best thing to do is have a third party present while y'all hash it out.
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Im sorry but I so understand u im with mine 9 yrs allways awesome but he is not good with me pregnant at all we fight I think everything annoys him imagine im not working no more so I depend on him alot so yea its hard talk to him! But I hope its just a phase
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Rosie180, your so right . I left with my daughter and I'm staying atbmy aunts for now
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He's not on pains meds since feb .., I don't pick fights with him ( I tell him straight up I'm not dealing with it ) when I bring it up omg he freaks out
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Wow :/ you need to take his *** to therapy. That's abusive and sweetheart you don't need that stress while carrying that baby. Especially with a three year old as well. If he won't go to therapy threaten to call someone about domestic abuse. Because talking about how you need to get beat is one step away from taking matters into his own hands and actually beating you. You don't need that. I don't care if he feels inferior since you do so much, or if he's on meds or something causing him to swing. There is no excuse for such behavior. EVER!!!!
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