Hubby is being a huge jerk

[Nurseandmommy]

Tpying while crying so might not make sense .. Made with hubby for 13 years and things were wonderful etc ... Now I'm 33 weeks pregnsnt and he's always yelling at me. , saying I'm a bad mom ( have three year old too ) calls me lazy . Stupid, ***** , says I should be beat etc ... I work 12 hour shifts , do all house work , cooking etc... He won't kiss me , hug me , sleep in same bed etc ... He's never done this before in 13 years .. Wtf is going on ? Help

[KimboLynne19]

^^that's what I was thinking about the pain killers. Did he finish them? Is he out of refills? Do you think he ran out and was/is becoming addicted?

[lialove1721]

I agree ^^ maybe it's the medication or pain killers?

[GigiBella]

Is he on any type of medication that might cause mood swings?  
You need to stand up for yourself and let him know (without crying) that you are not going to put up w being disrespected.  If he cant speak to you right then dont speak to you atc all. If it doesn't get better, you might need to outside help.

[jeni18]

leave him you dont need that stress

[Huni_b]

try n find out what's bothering him to make him act like this.

many times one partner will make the other one feel bad for something trivial because they are the ones who shud feel guilty for something.  It's like taking the attention away from them, and onto you instead.

idk. maybe if u avoid fighting and offer him ur support n understanding he'll be willing to open up, rather than creating new fights that don't solve the underlying issue.

[Nurseandmommy]

Thanks for the support . Going to let him
Cool down ... Just scared that I'll be left alone with a three year old and soon to be another .. I don't want my kids around this but it'd not him .. Err stressed ... Gtg ttyl