Last name ?

[Patriciaaa02]

So I've been thinking of not putting my bf last name to my daughter bc I think he be talking to other girls behind my back he keeps denying it but idk what to think when I when I went to use his phone to text my friend the word beautiful and sexy appeared right next to each other as soon as I started typing as if he uses those words a lot he never ever calls me that so I know for a fact it's not me and well he is a good dad been there since day one but I feel really hurt knowing he might be talking to someone else especially while I'm pregnant it hurts me so much bc I feel very unattractive and he's over there making other girls feel special it's been 4 days now that we been arguing about it and I keep giving him the cold shoulder and I feel really disrespected I'm confuse and don't know what to do anymore :(

[maw4389]

Does he hide his phone? Or take it to the bathroom with him?

[Patriciaaa02]

What would you guys think if u guys saw the same thing in your bf phones new phone he just got too so it's not like it's from the past

[Leabellallee]

There's no law you have to give the baby his last name, but it won't stop him from being dad. That being said- its also much harder to change the last name from his to yours later if things go south. Furthermore- you'll prob never 100% definitively know if he's talking to other girls or cheating. But if you have a gut feeling and its ongoing you need to distance yourself from him romantically. Because even if he's not cheating your insecurity alone will cause a rift in the relationship and you will not be happy. Sometimes we subconsciously cast our doubt about the relationship on our partners by thinking they are cheating. It's usually a reflection that we ourselves want out of the relationship but are too scared to admit it. Not always- but sometimes. Just a different view from the others posted. It's certainly not the gospel by any means.

[kourtneeeey]

i gave my daughter both our last names. his-mine.

[Danielleberger1]

What I will tell you is your lucky he wants to be a father and provide. He should give his last name to his daughter. In my case, my daughters father decided drugs were more important to him than his daughter, so he isn't going to be in her life, so she's taking my last name. He may be talking to other girls or may not, but he's going to be a father. So keep that into your consideration before giving him that blow, because that's disrespectful to a man when their kid doesn't take their last name.

[tiantiluv]

Omg same boat girlie i was 135 now i weigh 184 stretch marks are appearing face is getting fat and swollen nose is fat i did a complete 160 going from small frame to who did it and why. Your feelings and what your going through is whay iam going through right now smh belive me if you have a instagram add me @tianti21 ypu you will see what iam talking about lol