Last name ?

[Patriciaaa02]

So I've been thinking of not putting my bf last name to my daughter bc I think he be talking to other girls behind my back he keeps denying it but idk what to think when I when I went to use his phone to text my friend the word beautiful and sexy appeared right next to each other as soon as I started typing as if he uses those words a lot he never ever calls me that so I know for a fact it's not me and well he is a good dad been there since day one but I feel really hurt knowing he might be talking to someone else especially while I'm pregnant it hurts me so much bc I feel very unattractive and he's over there making other girls feel special it's been 4 days now that we been arguing about it and I keep giving him the cold shoulder and I feel really disrespected I'm confuse and don't know what to do anymore :(

[Patriciaaa02]

Lmao you're funny but yea it is true even now that I'm pregnant I still get hit on and at work over the counter u can't see my belly and good looking guys do try to flirt with me I think it's funny & I know I'm not ugly not to be conceited but I'm the prettiest gf my bf has ever had and he's an ok looking guy people always tell me i could of done better but it was his heart and personality that I fell in love with and made me think he was different but at the end it seems like all guys fck up no matter what it hurts me bc I've been with him since I was 19 I will soon be 24 and now a baby on the way and he tried sooooo hard to be my bf I use to be mean to him and tell him eff off when he would try to get with me so all the effort he put in into being with me for him to mess it up like nothing it's hurtful and no i didn't see the actual texts but what a coincidence that as soon as I went to type in the bottom little bar where your most use words show up sexy and beautiful showed up and they were the only words that showed up he's done it before so it's hard to believe him now

[maw4389]

Not trying to sound rude or anything, but do you actually have proof of him talking to other girls? Did you ever see actual messages from and to other girls?

[MamaJ1014]

I know you wanna hurt him, but the best revenge is gonna be when you have that baby, bounce back, and he realize how it's nothing for baby girl to have a step daddy real quick. Lol. I'm joking, but no seriously, you only have a few more weeks. He wanna play with fire then let his *** burn. I keep telling my child's daddy that pregnancy is temporary and I'm gonna bounce back. He didn't believe me, now I'm 18 days from my due date and the n***a is realizing just how fast this is about to be over.

[Patriciaaa02]

@mamaj1014 I guess I know that will hurt him so I guess that's my way of getting back at him I tell him he can always see his daughter tho regardless of us being together or not I won't take her away but I know the last name is such a big deal to him that I know it will hurt him and I feel like that's my way of saying I told not to fck with me bc I told him since the beginning of my pregnancy don't try me especially now that I'm pregnant cause I'll make u regret it and I don't him to think I was playing when I said it

[Patriciaaa02]

Yes I'm very insecure at the moment  when we first met I was like 120 lbs flat stomach big butt and my body was just so perfect no stretch marks no cellulites and now im 180 lbs with cellulites and stretch marks even tho no one would even guess I'm 180 lbs cause I look like 140 lbs right now I know how much weight I've put on and I know my body is not the same I don't mind it I'll do it all for my baby girl I always thought I couldn't have kids so idc but at the same time I'm insecure and my bf talking to other girls doesnt help out it makes my self esteem go more down I can't wait to have my baby and go back to old me and it's true what you're saying at the end he will hurt more for messing up our family it just hurts me more for my daughter I come from divorce parents and that's the last thing I want for my daughter but I will not tolerate cheating from him and talking to other girls is cheating to me

[MamaJ1014]

You should not base whether your child gets his last name off you two's relationship. If he's been doing what he needs to do as a father then why shouldn't his daughter get his last name. That's where conflict comes in, women get their relationship and the relationship with the child intertwined and that shouldn't be the case. My child's father has gotten caught cheating and it's really some fck him type sh!t, but the man loves his son and I know he's gonna be a good father so I'm giving my son his last name.