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18 year old mommies

Any other 18 year old first time mommies out there? Would love to talk and hear about other pregnancies like mine!
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3242317 tn?1346785004
I'm 19...first time mommy due May 10th :)
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I'm keeping the baby girls!! No doubt!! I was always meant to be a mommy!! The father and I are talking today and I'm letting him know my decision and standing my ground on living arrangements. I am on the lease just as he is so it is my house too. Whether or not he likes it I will be living in my own house regardless of if we are together or not.
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3117975 tn?1342463744
Can you go to a friends house?
You should try and get on welfare and get on wic.
Welfare gives you money and wic is like food stamps and they give you these papers (not sure what to call em) and you go to the store and you get what's written on the papers for free either at the store or a wic/mothers store.
There is also this act that pays for your living arrangements but you'll need to get a job cuz slowly they'll stop paying for your living expenses and you have to do it your self.
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2052470 tn?1351176040
There are places you can get help. Keep the baby. Don't have an abortion  cuz later you will remember and will reject doing it. Yall may not last but a baby is a blessing. Do what your heart says not your head. Wish you the best.
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Well guys my boyfriend, the baby's father, left me last night. I've been an absolute wreck. I have no money and nowhere to go. What do I do girls?
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I'm nearly 19 and I'm am 6 weeks today first time mummy, when I told my mum she basically told me to move out, I am still with the father have been together 2 years now, we are both excited to become parents, I wish my family would understand that I am not ruining my life, only just srartimg it :-)
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I'm nearly 19 and I'm am 6 weeks today first time mummy, when I told my mum she basically told me to move out, I am still with the father have been together 2 years now, we are both excited to become parents, I wish my family would understand that I am not ruining my life, only just srartimg it :-)
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I'll be exactly 18 when I find out!
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I know what you mean. I'm 17, I'll be 18 on the 19th of this month. Right now, I'm spotting and I think I got pregnant on the 5th. I'm waiting till my birthday till I take the first test. I'm a senior in hs and my bf is a junior. He knows that it's a possibility and is excited, but if it turns out that I'm pregnant, we are gonna wait to tell our families. Our parents have big dreams for us and we have them for ourselves too. I'm gonna be a journalist, him a chef, and we still have college. It's going to be tough, but I'm ready. I practically raised my sister, nieces, and nephews. I knew the work, the money is a different story... I'm a bigger girl, so it will be easier to hide for me at least. Keep your head up. Things will come around. (Sorry it was so long. lol. I ramble. ALOT!)
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Don't have any abortion! You were meant to be a mommy or else you wouldn't be pregnant. And if he doesn't want his own baby, then he probably won't make a good father and even worse husband. I know that sounds rude, but he helped make your baby and if he isn't willing to love it and take responsibility, then he doesn't sound like the best kind of guy.
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Awww Hun try an stay strong I'm sure non of this is easy hell it isnt with all the things that's been happing but just think of the baby I mean it's gonna love you an need you to stay healthy & strong.
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And now my boyfriend left me :( Idk what to do. I've been crying and having panic attacks since he left :(
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3419238 tn?1353081771
I'm 21 an this is my second pregnancy. I got pregnant with my son when I was 14 and had him at 15. He's now six and been in school for the last 3 years healthy and perfectly fine. I hope all is well with all you lady's and if any advice is needed go ahead and ask :)
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3419238 tn?1353081771
I'm 21 and this is my 2nd pregnancy. I got pregnant with my first at 14 and had him at 15. He's 6 now and in school the last 3 yrs. if you need any advise go ahead and ask :)
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Me :) im due April 29th
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Meghan my name is Andrea I added you Facebook (: us young mother have to support each other an stick together. But I'm also hoping for a girl as well.
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I'm 18 as well, and an Army wife also:) Haha
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3117975 tn?1342463744
When I first told my family that I was pregnant they didn't know how to take.
My dad at first was you know not okay with it. But like all well its happened.
but then it sunk it and he said alot of awful things to me called me a **** and said I was worthless and he disowned me.
It hurt.
But he cooled off then came around to the idea of me being pregnant.
Just give your family time. Its alot to take in and it juss needs to sink in.
Hopefully they'll come around.
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Im 18 and 13 weeks &&2 dayss!
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Just got home from my doctors appt and its been confirmed. I am pregnant! 5 weeks. But I told my mom and my family disowned me. Idk what to do guys :( really need your help love and guidance.
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I'm 18 almost 19 in 4 weeks with my first :)
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3218865 tn?1346947351
I'm 17 I'll be 18 in December and this is my first and last not because i don't love kids i do but i only want one, I've always just wanted one:) were hoping for a girl. good luck in your pregnancy and mother hood.  
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2052470 tn?1351176040
I'm 18 and have a 3 week old about to be 4 weeks tomorrow. First time mom. I love my lil man. Congrats to everyone on their pregnancy.
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2052470 tn?1351176040
I'm 18 and have a 3 week old about to be 4 weeks tomorrow. Fist time mom. I love my lil man. Congrats to everyone on their pregnancy.
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