I am 14 weeks 4 days and I have been having really bad cramping. I want to go to the er, but the hospital where I live is dumb. Until your are 20 weeks pregnant they tell you not to come into the er for anything pregnancy related unless you are bleeding. The just say lay down. Well, I'm sorry but I have a 3 and a half year old that I need to take care of because she took a late nap. They just make me so mad that they won't do anything! Anything I can do?