Sex drive in pregnancy!

[Stacey91]

So I hear all the time about women and increased labidos during pregnancy.. But is it normal to have the opposite ? decreased sex drive.. Or is there something wrong with me lol

[bina_chuy]

What should I do can I take medican to get horny ??

[Kendraerika]

I found out I was pregnant 2 days after I married the father of my 2 yr old. I have 0% sex drive, and I feel sooo bad for my husband! It was this way with our first as well. My sex drive came back about 6 weeks after having our first daughter.

[Linny5511]

When I was pregnant with my daughter I couldn't get enough. It was multiple times a day, or at least I tried. My husband was frustrated with me trying to keep up. And i've always kind of had a high sex drive, then it increased by 50 lol. But now i'm 8 weeks pregnant with my 2nd and I have absolutely no interest at all for sex. My husband is once again upset as he was now looking forward to the increase this time.. Lol thats what he gets for pushing me away a lot last pregnancy. :)

[Lesley27]

My first preg i had a girl...and didnt want sex... as far as getting it back after delivery it depends how tired you are... it took me a while to get it back, kinda when i got more organized and Allisa started sleeping more...

Im actually relieved that i have some drive this time as it is tough and its hard to get them to truly understand that its not them it you lol

[luvmy2girls]

I hate it for about 3 1/2 months then can't get enough the rest of the time lol

[ms_feb]

U have to mommyjeep! Lol :p my hubby is the same I feel bad for him :( so if his good I give him HJ or if his really really good he gets the prize B.J lol!!!!hehehe

[Mommyjeep11]

I'm the opposite. With my son I wanted it ALL the time and now just the thought repulses me. I'm 28 weeks with a girl. I feel bad for my husband too. He was really understanding at first. Mostly because our dr said none til the 2nd trimester due to some issues but now it's starting to bug him so I cave in but i am so uncomfortable and I just don't want to do that lol.

[ms_feb]

My firsf pregnancy was carrying girl & i was horny as hell lol This is really weird also lost my appetite for sex & found out I was having a boy! What's up with that??? So weird anybody I know having a boy lost their sex drive weird..hhmm. !:p

[Stacey91]

Im having a boy too lol... Lol yes taking one for the team is exactly the same boat im on haha.. Will it go back to normal after delivery lol!!

[Lesley27]

Ya last pregnancy it was a rare occurances lol more or less giving one for the team every once i a while, it was that bad... this time im a lot better... when im not sick that is... and it never picked up later in the pregnancy... infact somehow i think it got worse...

[RippedonScotch]

I can tell you that I had a lower then normal for me sex drive right until about a month into my pregnancy.   Now I have zero sex drive.  i feel bad for my husband but I have come to realize that is fairly normal.   Apparently it's also a old wives tale that when you lose your sex drive that you are carrying a boy.  Which according to 2 U/S now is what i'm having.

[RippedonScotch]

I can tell you

[Stacey91]

Thank god for that lol!! No It started from thd biginning of my pregnancy but it has got worse im 32 wk now lol.. Never had a problem before.. But ive made my self paranoid about it lol and I think that it wont go back to normals lol.. I can hardly remember what it was like before anymore lol.. U always here the women get more horny when preggy lol I was freaking.. Im sure you are glad it didnt happen again with the second lol! Thanks girls btw :)

[whatstheodds]

My other pregnancies I had a high sex drive but this one I could care less lol. Guess it just depends

[proudmommyandwife]

No its normal. With.my first son I wanted it alot now this pregnancy I don't really want it at all

[alaysha]

About 50% of pregnancies have decreased sex drive. Its normal. With my first I didn't want to be touched with a 10 foot pole. I literally had sex 1 time in 13 months it was so bad. But with my second I couldn't get enough. Each pregnancy is different and the hormones will react different ways.

[brit0585]

No nothing wrong with u. Sometimes that comes later in pregnancy and not right away. How far along are u?