3weeks has passed...!!!

[hotmama78]

Has been 3 weeks since i loss my Baby Aidan and go thru still birth at 21week.. i trying hard to move on.. most of my time lay down and crying on bed and read thru many many post in here.. and whenever i go thru a post some other mommy has m/c or experience loss or go for abortion with own choice for force my heart aching and i crying so badly... :(( is this help my situation or i should stop to visit this community a while...??? but i really want to give my good advised if i can... i just not sure if i make them feel better or actually i worsen they pain.... forgive me i was not really in good condition if i offends any... advised welcome so much...!!!

[momabear86]

It's up to you. If you can cope with woman talking about pregnancy and it makes you feel good giving advice then you know your always welcome!
Please don't torture yourself tho. <3

[JaneRae]

My son passed away at birth. He was 39 weeks 2 days. We are sneaking up on his first angelversary. Can hardly believe it has been a year. We are expecting another baby boy in June. Its definitely nerve wracking and on here some of the things people say seem really shallow. Some of the worries, so small. I am sure its because they don't have first hand experience of a parents nightmare. I am glad for that as no one should outlive their child. Advice I can offer, find a support group its so nice to be amongst those who know what you are going through. Also I would advise looking into Faith's Lodge. Not sure of your demographics but the lodge was built to honor a baby girl named Faith who was still born. It is in Wisconsin in the northwoods and people travel there from many states as it is a haven to those who are grieving the loss of their child.

[trulyblessed91]

I'm so sorry for your loss and you are in my prayers.  When I lost our first one in July I had to quit getting on fb bc it would depress me even more to see my friends pictures of their tummy or ultrasound ...even reading about it hurt. I quit going around family that was pregnant too bc it just reminded me of our baby...losing a baby is the hardest obstacle in life. But if talking to ppl on here is what helps you then continue,  but if it hurts you maybe j should take a break for a while.

[PinkDiamonds7]

Your in my prays hotmama78 I haven't delt with this but I know it would be tough just take your time and heal you been through a hard situation and in time I know it will ease a lil because of the type of person you are from what I read and the kind words that you gave too  me be strong hun I know god will help you through this...

[Stacey91]

soz i forgot to mention the reason why i mentioned the 2 other girls is because they find a bit of comfort talking to people through mail on this and if the posts are maybe upsetting you more than you are which you do not need! you should try just chatting to girls i think that would be a gd idea x..

[Stacey91]

I think if it makes you feel worse than you already feel then you should maybe stop for a while until you have started to deal with things a little better.. im sure u are very sad and its maybe making you worse.. it makes me cry half the time when i read things or am chatting to girls going through hard times.. i have been chatting to 2 girls on here one who had a m/c and one who felt like it was best for her to have an abortion and she did and I think they are both so brave and i think you are so brave and its heartbraking .. or if you just come on and try chatting to girls just for support that might help you instead of making things worse.. its always nice to have someone to talk to .. but i think if you are causing yourself more heartache at the min stay off for a week and see how you feel.. or when your having a particuarlly bad day dont come on.. x

[buggie216]

I think you should stay...we'll help you through this awful time. the best thing about this site is knowing there are people out there that care and that none of us are alone...hang in there sweetheart. My heart is still broken and sad about your loss...it will take time...lots of time...