I found put boy at 14 wks too. Tech said the same thing to me.
I'm finding out at 14 weeks, its not to early.
Yea im more than sure i saw it haha, my boyfriend said "aww i thought i was gunna have a little girl" hes a little sad but i dont care, it was a baby, so no worries!
I saw my boys penis when I had an ultrasound at 12 weeks. They told me it was too early to tell but I definitely saw it. 6 weeks later I got confirmed it was a boy.