anyone else planning of having a tubal?

[arlene87]

I'm 25 yrs old and I'm having my second baby.. I honestly don't want anymore kids but my husband wants another one.  

[arlene87]

At first he wanted to do it but someone told him that guys get testicular cancer so now he won't do it..

[Shirano]

Ain't that the truth! Haha well maybe you husband will see the light lol

[KJ812]

I think if us woman refused to do it the world would fall off its axis from being over populated lol men get the easy end of the deal all the way around.

[Shirano]

Seriously they numb them, they are awake the whole time, two little cuts, and 20 minutes later they walk out and lay on the coach watching football for a few days. It's not manly for them to whimp out because they think it will hurt lol. What if women said no I'm not going to get a tubal because its not a woman thing? I mean our bodies are made to have babies....I wonder

[KJ812]

Ha i wish my hubby would consider it too. He says its not a man thing either. But like i told him its more a major surgery for a woman but i also said i think if i get it done he should either way because god forbid we ever split and were with other people i wouldnt want him havin babies with other ladies. Lol so it would be fair in my opinion for both. Hes just a baby tho. I guess he thinks theyll do to him like our dog and it will just be flab there no matter how many times i explain its not the same haha

[heatherbean1437]

I'm having it done as much as I would love to try for a girl my body does not like being pregnant :-/

[Shirano]

Haha my husband is for it because I have to care the kids around for 9 months, have my body and hormones all over the place, so he figures its the least he can do lol. It's only a 20 minute procedure with like two small cuts, if you can even call them cuts, and takes like may a week to recover. Way better than having major abdominal surgery I think.

[Diazbabygirl4]

To Shirano lol I wish my husband would consider it, but for him that's not a man thing to do... I know crazy and s***** lol

[Diazbabygirl4]

lol I wish my husband would consider it, but for him that's not a man thing to do... I know crazy and s***** lol

[Shirano]

Why not have your husband get snipped it is a less invasive process.

[Diazbabygirl4]

I plan to get it done right after I deliver on Feb. this will be my 4 child I have 2 boys and with this one I will complete my 2 girls, enough is enough, ohh by the way I'm 29 yrs.

[brandy07]

I plan on getting one right after my daughter is born... I have 2 boys also!! I really love kids and would want more but don't wanna be selfish and take away what we could get the kids like I wanna pay for their college when they r older and cars when they r 16!! Im due in just 19 days so I'm nervous bcuz im suppose to get one the day my daughter is born!!