Are they mine?

[titi2346]

My girlfriend was pregnant back in Febuary, but miscarried with twins.  She threw up blood and bled and had all the normal miscarriage symptoms and had multiple pregnancy tests which came up negative.  But she still continued to have pregnancy symptoms.  How long if any do women have pregnancy symptoms after a miscarriage?  It is now August, it has been almost 6 months since she supposedly had a miscarriage and now doctors say she's 8 weeks pregnant, with twins.  But I have not had sex with her since before she was pregnant the first time!  I don't want to accuse her of having sex with someone else because I really don't want to believe that she'd do that but I'm wondering is it possible that she is pregnant with MY children not somebody elses?  I am very confused on how she had a miscarriage with plenty following pregnancy tests and ultrasounds which came up as negative and no heartbeat, and months later she's pregnant with twins but I haven't had sex with her.  So is it possible that she is pregnant with my children months down the road after being told multiple times that there has been a miscarriage?

[heatherw26]

If you haven't had sex with her at all (protected or not) since February and she is now 8 weeks pregnant...they aren't your babies.

Are you even sure she's pregnant? Did you see the positive pregnancy test? Did you go to the doctor with her? Have you seen ultra sound pictures? If she didn't have an ultra sound done, she has NO way of knowing it's twins.

[devine76]

she is playing with your emotions you might love her but come on your not that daft tell her straight it would be imposible 4 it 2 be you baby's. maybe she's just desperate 4 a child but if that was the case do you not think you would of had sex a lot sooner?!!. maybe she's mixed up or having an affair that's if she is pregnant? you need awnswers you will have 2 be straight with her and see what she say's to you good luck keep us posted. lynne:-D

[NicMom]

The simple answer is no if you haven't had sex in over 6 months she can't possibly be 8 weeks pregnant with your twins.

[lisa1905]

i am agree with all posters , my question is why everytime that she is preagnant, she is pregnant with twins , , that is a red flag right there one out of 30 pragnancy is becaming as a twin and most of those twins are because they used some fertilization drugs , best of luck to u

[angel994]

i would like to just let you know that it is best for you to never believe something like that without proof. it sounds to me she lied the first time, and is now lying again. each time she goes to this socalled doc she might just be cheating if she for sure is prego with twins. and i throw up blood but not from miscarriages. it is actually a sign of severe upper gastroentestinal ulcers. i am prego with twins but the vomiting blood sounds like she is messin with your emotions. if you have a doubt its best to follow your insticts to make sure that what you are being told isnt just words. immaculate conception is the card she is trying to pull. dont fall for it. she obviously thinks you arent very bright. but you being on here asking questions you just outsmarted her.

[sabella_doub]

i agree you cant be one 100 % sure that she was prego ( excuse my slang) if you didnt see the test for sure. ive read and heard some stories at the hospital of women "misscarring" but not really and at the same time their pregnancy continues with there belif that they had a misscarriage...............the only thing you can do is ask and be up front if you have a concern then ask and hopefully she is an honest and like ANNIEBROOKE said go with her to her next appointment and find out for your self

[AnnieBrooke]

If she was pregnant in February, by now there would not be the need to go to the doctor to see it, you could see it in her waistline and other changes.  If you have not had sex with her since February, and she's 8 weeks pregnant now, those would not be your children.

That said, do you KNOW she was pregnant in February?  Did you see her pee on the home test and get a positive?  Did you go with her to the doctor?  Do you know she actually had a miscarriage, or did she simply vomit and then told you that is what it was?  (I had a miscarriage of twins, and though I was plenty crampy and in pain, I didn't throw up blood.  That is not a common miscarriage sign.)

And do you KNOW she is pregnant now, with twins?  Were you there at the ultrasound?  You heard the doctor say "8 weeks" with your own ears?

Some women who want to connect more closely with a boyfriend will pull the "I was pregnant but then miscarried" card.  If you haven't been having sex, I don't know why she would pick a date that would indicate to you that she has been sleeping with someone else, but it's all just adding up wrong.

Go with her to the doctor and see what he or she says.