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my boyfriend is happy about our baby but our families dont really get along:/ were always arguing when it comes to that...I want to keep my baby and bf together so we can be a family but its hard when our
families dont get along..any advice???
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Ours don't either babe you don't half to get along cause your starting your own family alow the baby to see both sides and just don't speak to your inlaws is the best way to go and tell everyone it will just be you and your .bf at the hospital I made the mistake of inviding both our mom's ending in a huge fight!!!
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Ours don't either babe you don't half to get along cause your starting your own family alow the baby to see both sides and just don't speak to your inlaws is the best way to go and tell everyone it will just be you and your .bf at the hospital I made the mistake of inviding both our mom's ending in a huge fight!!!
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If they want to fight over who buys what, who sees the baby when, etc, cut them out of your life. I had to threaten my mil with it before we found out I was pregnant because she was being nasty to me all the time
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Similar situation here too.
People have said that I need to start thinking of my own family unit ie me baby and partner  ANd if families want to be involved with baby they need to learn to get along as will make things awkward at baby's birthdays, xmas etc and will put you and partner in difficult position.  
It is easier said than done but you have to put u first. Maybe talk to both families separate and explain how u dont want to be put in the middle?
Hope everything turns out ok in the end xx
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