I dont feel any connection with baby?

[missnat84]

I feel him move around all the time but i dont feel any love or connection. Is this normal?i feelcold hearted but i cant help it. Could my depression have something to do with it?will it change once the baby is here?

[Optimysticmama]

how far along are you? is this ur first baby? are u depressed about baby?

[missnat84]

Im 7mths with first baby. I think because the dad is a @#%& so that isnt helping

[ValishaS]

Your child is a blessing no matter what,everytime u feel the baby move its a part of you growing inside,telling you im still here mommy & i love you !.

[RockRose]

this is a concern,  missnat.  It's unusual to not feel a very very strong connection with the baby at this time in the pregnancy.

Reading through your profile,  you have a lot of serious concerns including ability to provide for the baby,  and a history of depression and anxiety and suicidal thoughts.

I think you need to bring this up to your doctor for help before the baby gets here.

Best wishes.

[bamasweetheart]

I felt the same way with my first but it changed once I held him