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6520484 tn?1399082398

Certain opinions...

My fiancee and I picked a name that we both love for our son. We wanted a unique name because we both have very generic names. (Jess & Jeff). I then read a post a little while ago with a bunch of women talking about how they think it's stupid to have unique names etc. Now I'm super sad and self conscious about what we picked :( I just don't understand the need for the negativity... if you don't like a name then don't pick it for your child. Please don't post for other pregnant women to read...
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6520484 tn?1399082398
Those are both super cute :)
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7240013 tn?1405912110
If it is a boy Preston James if it is a girl Alanna Christine
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Love d name oakley very cute dont listen to negativity its your child and your decision... screw everyone else!!!
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I had a unique name picked out and posted it on here, now i see how many others have chosen to use it. kinda bugs me bt whatever.
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6265786 tn?1386113658
im naming my son after a greek god. I dont know ANYONE with the name we chose. lovvve oakley!! that's a wikid name! go with it!
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6031505 tn?1391010786
If you are proud of and love the name you have chosen don't fret. No point to bend to others opinions especially when they're only being silly over the internet.
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I think that post was more about made up names and all-out mispelled names. To me, if youre going to name your son derek or derrick thats fine. But it doesnt need a Q or Z in it. Also ive heard just ridiculous made up names. "Abcde" is no joke going to be used as a name and I cant even make fun of the name because I KNOW of my bf can read that over my shoulder and say "wow u know how many kids will call him alfie or alphabit** bc his parents named him that" not even 10seconds after reading it, imagine how much more creative kids will be around the child ALL THE TIME. Oakley is a NAME thats how the brand got it. Same as mercedes, or even maybelline.
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6520484 tn?1399082398
Thanks ladies! My fiancee loves it because he thinks the little ones friends will call him oaks haha I hope you all have healthy babies!
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Im thinking about calling my little prince oakley as well.. I also like archie. As long as u like the name it dnt matter what others think. Most names grow on people anyways. I have a step cousin called otto and the whole family turned their noses up at it at first but now everyone thinks it suits him!! U stick with what u want not what others persuade u!
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I Oakley and I love different go with it
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I like the name Oakley! I love it actually. & I agreed with the post to be honest. She didn't mean unique as in the name itself but the spelling.

She meant of it's Aubrey. Girls try to go all out and spell it like Aubreaei
Or like if it's ashley. The try to go with Ashleigh. She was saying that's not really making it unique rather than just odd.

Then I love the name Mercedes but you'll hear those people that are like "really? After a car?"

I named my niece Shelby. Literally after the car. Buuuuuuut would never name my own that.
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7056255 tn?1388961063
Its a beautiful name..nothing wrong with unique. Im named Mercedes Manuella DeJesus. And I love having a different name. My boyfriend and I chose Victoria Angela Rose Patterson for our little girl. Dont be afraid to be unique.
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Thanks,, Good luck on you're little one!!
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I like the name Oakley! I think you both did well on picking it! Take care and best wishes!
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I Also Love Unique Names Because My Name Is Jennifer And My Last Name Is Also Common So Ive Had A Lot Of Problems With Other People Having My Name. My Daughter Will Have An Uncommon Name, Noemi Xochitl, Which Means Beautiful Flower.
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6520484 tn?1399082398
L'orèal Is beautiful!
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Oakley is fine,, i was in the same position but i made my mind on L'orèal me && my bf&& idc about the makeup! That's your baby dnt worry about what ppl think even if they think glasses the only opinion that matters are the parents :).
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6520484 tn?1399082398
Thanks ladies :) picking a name is such a hard thing! You don't want to pick one if you know someone with the name, if you know a dog with a name,  Certain celebrities... etc. It has to be just right!
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I think Oakley is an adorable name!  And the whole name flows very well!
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I was the same way my hubby chose a very common name when i was 8 weeks pregnant i loved it at first but i had my doubts. Now i am 7 months in and sticking to that name. My hubby chose it and we both love it so thats all that matters<3
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Don't mind the women on here.
if you both love the name, than its perfect for your little one.  Congrats on choosing a cute name!
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7301641 tn?1391016954
I agree. I think its cool to have a unique name especially when you find someone with the same name as you then your like wahhh I found someone else!
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6520484 tn?1399082398
Thank you. We're going to name him Oakley Alexander Antonio Delgado. We both love the name and hope people don't think it's Oakley after the clothing/sunglasses :(
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Dont worry! If you both love the name that is all that matters! Congrats!
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