I just came back from my 38 week appointment. My midwife checked my cervix and I'm so over it. She's so kind and sympathetic but I feel so bad. I literally cry because every time she checks it's so incredibly painful. On top of trying to get over the pain, she tells me that my cervix is still only softening. I'm so disappointed. I just want things to speed along. I'm going to have sex tonight, and basically every night from this point on to try and move things along faster. Any tips? Or anyone in the same boat with not even being dilated yet? I feel like this baby is going to be 40+ and I'm not looking forward to it. I will go insane. Thank god my midwife scheduled my induction a little less than a week after my due date just in case.