trying to concieve.

[venlorney]

me and my husband been having sex unprotected for over a month, trying to concieve.
give me help on what to do?

[EmsMom07]

There are many things that you can do to TTC (Try To Conceive) for instance you can chart your basal body temp at the same time each day to detect when you will ovulate, check your CM (Cervical Mucus), use OPK's (Ovulation Predictor Test) they also tell you when you ovulate, if you don't want to spend a lot of money on them you can always buy the tests at the dollar store. Also after I had my IUD removed in July 2009 I tried almost everything imaginable, such as keeping my legs up for 30min after baby dancing to make sure that no sperm got out, stayed on the bottom, since I read that if the women's on top more sperm will come out, etc. But after 6 1/2 months of trying and no luck I read about a product called pre-seed found at babyhopes.com, it's suppose to be the only lubricant safe for sperm, and it also helps get the sperm where it needs to go, I thought I might as well get it since I had nothing else to lose, and I was going on 7 months of TTC. So that month I used my OPK's and got a positive one on January 6th, 2010, my husband and I baby danced late that night using the pre-seed, and then early morning of the 7th. I finally got my BFP (Big Fat Positive) on January 19th, 2010, I am now 22 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby boy =0) So I recommend this product to EVERYONE, since I really think that this is what gave me my BFP! Well I hope this helps, and good luck!

[Jenni1187]

Good luck!!!

[nickieb85]

Ok first of all, it takes healthy couples (with no fertility problems) anywhere from 1 month to 12 full months to conceive on their own. There are a few things that you can do to help the process along though. Start off by tracking your ovulation (either with basal body temperatures or ovulation prediction kits--google it for more info) and then when you figure out when you ovulate (15 days before your period starts) have sex every other day the five to 6 days before (those are considered your fertile days)... Don't get discouraged if it doesn't happen right away. Also it is always a good idea to start taking prenatal vitamins and folic acid for good measure and try to stop or cut back smoking or drinking all together to give your eggies better chances of implanting and thriving! Good luck!