Herpes will not normally affect your fertility. It will not cause harm to your baby at all while its growing. However, if you have a break out while in labor they will have to do a c-section since herpes can cause the infant to go blind if they come into contact with it at delivery. It can cause other stuff at delivery but that's why they do a c-section if you have a breakout. It does take awhile to get pregnant sometimes. It took me 1.5 years. I'm now 22 weeks and she kicks like a maniac!
Some women have shorter cycles than others to find when u are ovulating i suggest getting an app like my days and keeping track.
herpes has no ill effect on your ability to concieve that im aware of but you really need to talk to a doc about that as there are risks to the baby. if an infant contracts it it can be life threatening.