Doctors say my baby isnt going to live :(

[Tiff0721]

I found out that I was having a baby girl. I also found out that she has Trisomy 13. :( Doctors are telling me that my daughter isn't going live to be a year old. Btw this is my first pregnancy. Anyone else have or had this happen before? Did your baby make it to a year old? What should I do?

[LillyM321]

I think maybe that website will help you

[LillyM321]

No matter how it goes I think the best advice I can give is to cherish every moment you have with your baby girl ♡ and don't stress momma! Everything will be okay.

[sutton19]

Just pray hun! I will pray for you and your baby. God bless an I really hope the lord heals your baby girl <3

[LillyM321]

http://trisomy.org/what-should-we-do-now-necessary-information-after-a-diagnosis-of-trisomy-18-or-trisomy-13/

[Tiff0721]

Trisomy 13 is an extra t13 chromosome which is incompatible with life. Its not the same as down syndrome its more severe than that. The doctors say there is a possibility that she can live inside me. But there is a 80% chance ill misscarry once she gets older and the chromosome starts really affecting her. And that if I do deliever most likely she will only live for a few hours. If even that. Most likely I wont get to take her home.

[Tiff0721]

They found out through my blood work I had done @ 12 weeks. I think its a panorama test? It also tells you the gender. So the day I found out I was having a girl I also found out she had trisomy 13 :/. Good news bad news thing. The worst part is this happens to 1/16,000 women and usually women over 40. Im 20. Just my luck right? First pregnancy and they say she isnt going to live. :/

@jasmine. I am a Christian. And I definitely believe that God doesn't give people more than they can handle even when it feels like we can't. I trust god. As much as this is painful and I wish this wasnt happening. I know god has a reason for this even if I dont understand it. :/ all I can do is have faith and trust in him.