Going Crazy.Help me Please!!!

[monnie674]

Ok.So i had sex with a dude on august 9,2011 on a tuesday night at around 9:30 p.m.with no protection.It only lasted for 5 minutes and he didnt ejaculate in me so since im not on birth control i took the morning after pill on august 12,2011 on a friday at 7:30 p.m. the first one and the second one 12 hours later to be on the safe side.I then had my period on august 22,2011 and later had a pregnancy test done at my doctors office on september 8,2011 that came back negative.So,now on october 1,2011 i had a little bleeding and october 2,2011 i took a test and it came back positive so the only time i had sex with dude 1 was on august 9,2011 but in between that day i have been having sex with another dude.I went to the doctor on october 6,2011 and they said i was 6 weeks and 2 days with a crl of 5.5mm.I would like to know when could i have gotten pregnant and are the measurements(crl) correct for 6 weeks and 2 days and is there any possibility that dude 1 could father my child?

[stacey10]

its dude 2, relax :)

[monnie674]

Yea.I only had sex with 1 dude after my cycle and i do plan on getting a test after the baby is born.

[monnie674]

Thank u so much and you are so right.I feel so stupied to be in a position like this.Its like i know in my heart that its dude 2 but i want to be positive and rule every possibility of it being dude 1 out.

[honeydew21]

If you had sex with more than one man within a cycle get a paternity test. If you had a full, normal period than whoever you had sex with after is most likely the father.

If you're not 100% sure, get a paternity test. Be sure to let both men know about the situation and when the baby is born get the test.

[leesha89]

agree with stacey :) dude 2 is the father the first one would double how old your bubba is. you should take better precautions with unprotected sex if your sleeping with more than one person

[monnie674]

Ok.Thank u very much.Maybe i can finally breath and stop stressing.

[stacey10]

the estimated dates can vary depending on your cycle also most first borns are over due, as I said if it was with the other guy you would be around 12 wks at the time of your doctors app and your babies measurements sound exactly right for its age :)

[monnie674]

I jus want to make sure cause when i was pregnant wit my daughter they were off by 2 wks and she was overdue.Do u know if the measurements are correct?

[stacey10]

all your dates match up from the date of your last period 22 august to the date your doctor gave you

[stacey10]

I have put your dates into an ovulation calculator and have counted back and  dude 2 is the father, you would be further along if it was dude 1 as well, around 12 weeks when you went to your doctors and he gave you your 6wk date :)

[monnie674]

I am so confused.What if i coulda had a period when i was already pregnant or what if it could have been implantation bleeding instead?What question did u answer no to?

[stacey10]

no, the way the date a pregnancy is from the first day of your last period, so if they are saying your 6wks then bub is only 4wks old