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[Ashbash250]

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Is my boyfriend the father?
I messed around with my ex and had unprotected sex on Nov 21. I felt EXTREMELY bad after we started and after literally about 3 pumps (sorry if this is TMI) I asked him to stop. I wasnt too worried at first because I knew he hadnt ejaculated and I had also recently had a period.

I then had sex with my boyfriend on Nov 27th, 29th, and 30th. I later found out I was pregnant and went to the doctor on Dec. 31st. I had a transvaginal ultrasound and they said that I was 6 weeks 2 days. My due date was Aug 24, which means that I concieved around the 30th.

I went to another doctor on Feb 4. when I should have been 11 weeks 2 days. I got another ultrasound (this one not transvaginal) and they said that I was 11 weeks 3 days and changed my due date to Aug 20. This means that I would have concieved around the 27th. I know that sperm can stay inside you for a few days so this made me nervous about the ex boyfiend thing. Do you think there's anyway that my ex could be the father? This is tearing me up inside. I have read that early ultrasounds are usually pretty accurate, which make me feel better, but I have still been worried.

[Ashbash250]

I just looked up EWCM because I wasnt quite familiar with the term and now that I think about it, I remember on Thanksgiving day (Nov. 26. A day before me and my bf had sex) I went to the bathroom because I felt moisture down there and when I checked, there was some white discharge. Maybe that was my body getting ready for ovulation and I indeed concieved the next day on the 27th.

[Ashbash250]

Yeah I didn't really understand that either. I plan to ask the doctor about that on my next visit. Thanks a lot though. It's been stressing me out and I dnt want to harm the baby because of my stress. I've also been praying about it so hopefully things turn out good. Thanks again.

[cocacolapanda]

IF you have Egg White Cervical Mucus the sperm CAN stay for up to 5 days, but the typical is 2 maybe 3.  If you didn't have EWCM then my guess is only a day or two tops.  

It seems like it was the boyfriends, because Nov 21 to Nov 27th is enough days apart, and both ultrasounds had you only a few days apart.  It's weird how you got two due dates 4 days apart when you only measured one day ahead.