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Do you think i can be pregnant?

Hey everyone! I am new to this forum. I just wanted to share and see what you think. Sorry kinda long ;-)))))
I was wondering same thing. My last period started on Jan1, i usually have normal cycle 27-28 days. I am not on any birth control or anything, we use the pull out method. I usually have very normal periods. My breast gets tender and very sore somewhere around at least a week before my period, and then i get really bad cramps and all that stuff  on the day of my period, this is how i know i will have period on this day  and they last somewhere between 3-4 days.
I had sex on the 4th and 6th or 7th (dont remember) where my bf came inside. I know that most of the time you cant get pregnant few days before and few days after periods, so he thought it will be safe. But, i also know that nothing is ever safe, and there are many women who got pregnant before after and during period. So the whole month i've been having all kinda weird symptoms. Next week after the sex, i had terrible sharp cramps like pain in my stomach,(a little different cramps then what i usually get) i felt super bloated and my abdominal felt very hard and tight. This was going on and off  for about 2-3 days and then just disappeared. Then after that i  had white dishrage coming out like crazy, especially during sex, it felt like it was all over the bed and you can see it ( no smell, itching etc.), i mean it was over the top, got me scared for a moment.  I also noticed that for like 2-3 days i had pain in certain positions during sex that i normally don't have, the pain went away in like 2 days though. I've been kinda moody and emotional lately, tierd, but these may not be associated with pregnancy. The thing that started to bother me was that since then, most of the time i feel bloated,( morning, evening, day...) and while i don't have pain, when i press on the bottom of my stomach i feel little discomfort. Another thing i noticed that was unsuall for me was that i felt hot sometimes. I never feel hot, i mean like never ever... i am always cold, and all sudden i started to noticed that i actually feel like it's hot, and so far it's been the coldest temperature outside. Another thing i noticed that i would feel a little nausea, not a strong one,  i would feel like i eat something bad and starting  to feel  i am going to throw up, but it never gets to that point, it goes away in few minutes. The thing that really took my attention was that my boobs always get  very sour and tender at least week if not 10days before period, i  mean few days before period i usually cant even touch them but this time it's the Jan26 i my boobs just started very slightly to get tender, nothing like i would usually have few days before af. And yesterday ( jan 25) i felt cramps exactly like i do when my period starts  but i never feel them until the day af shows up, and then when i went to the bathroom i noticed this huge white/ clear/ creamy  discharge dropped.( gross sorry). I am expecting my periods on jan 28, hopefully it will not show up ( i would really love to have a baby). What do you guys think, what are my chances to see BFP??? ( Oh yee... i spent like way to much money on pregnancy tests, all negative so far...i quit since i only have few days left before the 28, promised not to do any unless i officially missing my period) Thanks for any response... AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL TTC!!!!!!!
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I actually support dollar sotre tests. Heard a lot of positive things about them. Belive it or not, i have two waiting for me at home!!! I did several last week, even went and bought clear blue digital, all were negative, so i kinda lost my hopes and decided not to do any untill i will miss my periods. I just really hope i am one of those who is gonna take litlle longer to show positive.Thanks for all your support. I am actually not a forum person at all. I just needed to let it out somewhere, did not really wanted share with family or friends just simply cause it's way to early plus we were not really ttc, but at the same time really wanting to have a baby. But it's so hard to keep all these hopes and emotions inside. I just hope that it is positive sign as someone here had very similar signs and had BFP!
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362408 tn?1236441081
Have you tested yet?
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376148 tn?1309899577
just go buy a dollar test they work just as goood hun!!
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Well... it's the 28th and i know it's only 10am but so far no af :-), and strangly, i have no signs of cramps, and i can even suck in my stomack which is unusuall for me on a day of my period... Also feel very energetic and in a good mood... wierd, cause i am usually a mess the first day.... My boobs a very sore ( not a really good sign, cause sore  and  tender breast is one of my biggest signs of af comming) but not tender though...As long as i can remember, i've never been late for af, no matter what...Oh well, keep your fingers crossed guys...please :-), i am so scared to go to bathroom....( silly i know!)! Lots and Lots of baby dust to ya all!
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730826 tn?1317943334
Hopefully its a baby for you!!!
By the way....not to be rude but why do people always thinki pulling out is a method? Thats like the one Ive heard (sadly) that peeing after sex works as a method. Its not!
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650636 tn?1293454560
Oops, I'm sorry, on my previous post, I meant that to Kisses442. But i'm sure you girls knew what I meant. lol! I'm having one heck of a day today, lol!!! Anyways, good luck to both of you!!!
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Thanks... I will defenately update on the 28th. It's just... so not funn.. this waiting period.... ughhhh..... why do we women have to go through it??????
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Thanks for your response... Glad to hear that i am not the only one having these issue. Let me know how the test will turn out. Good luck to you to get the result you want. Regarding the Symptom  you have experienced first time, i actually heard that women can have diffrent sympthoms durring each pregnancy...  
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650636 tn?1293454560
Good luck on your pregnancy test. I, too, have been pregnant before, sadly it ended in miscarriage, but with that pregnancy, I had all kinds of symptoms, and with this one, I didn't really have any symptoms. Each pregnancy is truely different. Good luck, and I can't wait to hear from both of you!!!
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650636 tn?1293454560
Well, I don't know what to tell you really, but I will be anxious to hear what the results will be on the 28th! Good luck, and I hope you get what you are looking for. I will keep my fingers crossed for you!!!
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Hi i was having the same symptoms as you. The bloating and the pain after//during sex. And i also had unproteted sex 3 times and the days were 6,7,20th.  I have been getting some Nausea symptoms. I am 4 days late and was on the pill for a year. I have no clue what is wrong with my body.! Today i am taking a Pregnancy Test. I have been pregnate before but the symptoms i am feeling arent Pregnancy ones. And my breasts were sore as well. I think were in the same boat here.
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