My DH and I used Instead Softcup when TCC after our No.1. Before we tried softcups, on a friend's recommendation, we had been TCC for months and months! As soon as we used Instead Softcup, we found we were pg!
We are very excited!
Anyhow, you can go to their web-site for more info, softcup.com. But basically the Instead Softcup was initially intended as an alternative to tampons. It is basically a plastic cup that fits snuggly inside you. When inserted after BD, the softcup traps the semen inside, increasing your chances of getting PG!
I've never used Instead Softcups and it was probably his semen. Have you tried taking Evening Primrose Oil or Flaxseed Oil or Preseed to increase natural CM production? If you do not get pregnant this cycle, please look into one of the three things I mentioned (or use Preseed with one of the oils for even better odds).
I just need to ask. . . what is a softcup?
It could have been your DH's sperm you were seeing. Depending on where you are in your cycle, your CM could be many different consistencies.