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Miscarriage, help?

I had a miscarriage last week and I keep waking up in the middle of the night crying, I've been getting an average of 1-3 hours sleep a night. Every time I wake up I'm crying, I see a pregnant woman, I cry, I see a baby, I cry. I'm crying right now. I cry to the point where I make myself feel sick. I'm going to try and get pregnant again, but I just don't know how to feel better until then.. what do I do? I feel like a murderer..
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Do NOT feel like a murderer. You miscarried because there was something wrong with the baby. There was nothing you could have done to prevent it. I promise you. I know how it feels to have a miscarriage, it hurts a lot. I don't cry that much but I bawled my eyes out when I had a miscarriage after trying to get pregnant for a year and a half. However, I got pregnant again a month afterwards and I'm 36 and a half weeks pregnant with a healthy baby girl. So don't give up and don't lose any hope. You will have a baby when the time is right. If you're meant to have a baby you WILL have one. I'm sorry you're at this hard time in your life but remember time heals all wounds and this happened for a reason. Maybe it will strengthen the relationship you have with your significant other. I wish you the best and good luck and hugs!
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I know exactly how you feel! I had 2 miscarriages and I was just hurt sad crying all the time it hurts so bad but you have to be strong I know I know it's hard and Easyer said then done but try it will get better I promise! Your time will come :) I know how it is I was just how you were I just had no one to talk to it was hard I just felt like nobody understand what I was going threw cuz it happen to me but I'm just telling you be strong. Just keep trying and take care:)
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I suffered a miscarriage two years ago, and it was one of the hardest times of my life. I felt so alone, like no one understood what I was feeling. I would keep a happy face on until I was alone and just cry. I say that to say that I am now 23 w 6 d pregnant and just pray that God takes care of my little baby. I really think you should talk to someone, just to sort through your feelings and get help coping. But rest assured, God has a plan for you.
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