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Another Pre *** Question PLEASE Answer!
Okay i know you guys have heard 93484123894012741 pre *** questions but please reply with honest exprience! So here's the story: Me and my fiance had unprotected sex (were not trying for a baby-i want one badly but he wants to hold out a little longer but if it happens it happens so he says!) Anyways we didnt use a condom And i was on my ovulation day he pulled out i would say like 1 minute before actually blowing! Could i still get pregnant theres sooo much yes and no im confused i reallllllllllllllllllllly hope to be! Have any of you gotten pregnant like this? please reply itd mean the world to me! <3 xoxo Lindsey
i wasnt sure what to think after reading some of your posts as it came across you gave it no thought what so ever and you just wanted a baby no matter what the circumstances, or whether your boyfriend wanted one or not but after reading your last post about saveing up and going to collage and everything else you wrote i can see you really do want this baby and have given it lots of thought, i thought at first you was being a silly teenager just wanting to get pregnant but i can see you really want this i wish you and your partner all the best in trying now and cant wait for the post to hear that your pregnant good luck xx
im with you laura on that one.
he wouldnt be pulling out if he wanted a baby and i still think your very young to be having trying to have a baby. you two are getting married...why dont you wait till your married. why dont you wait till your down college. its going to be very hard for you to be pregnant going to college then you have to take off to have a baby then your going to want to be there for your newborn. its going to be VERY hard. you two might be saving up money but you both are in college, that costs money, babies cost money, and daycare costs money, medical, costs money, and i dont think you two have nearly enough saved up
im going to college on the 27 did you know that 1 semester of college costs less than a whole month of daycare. thats over 1140 per month spend on daycare while im in college.....just a little food for thought
he wouldnt be pulling out if he wanted a baby and i still think your very young to be having trying to have a baby. you two are getting married...why dont you wait till your married. why dont you wait till your down college. its going to be very hard for you to be pregnant going to college then you have to take off to have a baby then your going to want to be there for your newborn. its going to be VERY hard. you two might be saving up money but you both are in college, that costs money, babies cost money, and daycare costs money, medical, costs money, and i dont think you two have nearly enough saved up
im going to college on the 27 did you know that 1 semester of college costs less than a whole month of daycare. thats over 1140 per month spend on daycare while im in college.....just a little food for thought
And thats understood its societys moral view of the situation that everyones hung on i dont believe im too young and we have this under control me and my FIANCE are getting married next fall this fall hes going for his second year in college and im going for my first! we have enough money to manage a baby for two years and still pay rent utilitys ect. Plus were saving up and the money is still coming in! Ive done tons of research on conception and took several parenting family dep. and child dep. classes plus 3 years of physc. I think i have a little more so to speak than most teen moms ive wanted this for a really long time and its not the tipical teen "i need somone to always love me and someone to take care of" or the "i wanna be a MILF and have a family! omg" thats not why at all i cant even list all the reasons i want this child! and most of them many of you wouldnt understand! but my point is i wanted REAL LIVE ANSWERS thats it just to take a view on EXPRIENCE! thats it! Me and my fiance neither one believe in birth control or condoms! And lastnight we came home from his family yearly get together and he just said look "seeing you handle those little kids and seeing how much compassion was just in playing with them it really made me rethink a lot of things and i think maybe we should start trying!" Im actually very excited and VERY READY but thank you for the advice
I am sorry I have to comment, and this likely won't make me popular...
I think if you have this many questions about conception, then perhaps maybe you aren't ready to be starting a family.
You are 18 years old and unmarried.. Are you even finished with high school yet? I know there MANY teen Moms who do a great job, but I would be willing to place a HUGE wager that most of them would have wished they would have waited until they were a little older and a little wiser before trying to conceive.
You even said your boyfriend/fiance' would rather wait?!!
My advice: get (or stay) on birth control and use protection.. There is no hurry.. I can't wish you luck on getting pregnant.. My opinion is you are too young..
I think if you have this many questions about conception, then perhaps maybe you aren't ready to be starting a family.
You are 18 years old and unmarried.. Are you even finished with high school yet? I know there MANY teen Moms who do a great job, but I would be willing to place a HUGE wager that most of them would have wished they would have waited until they were a little older and a little wiser before trying to conceive.
You even said your boyfriend/fiance' would rather wait?!!
My advice: get (or stay) on birth control and use protection.. There is no hurry.. I can't wish you luck on getting pregnant.. My opinion is you are too young..
You can't guess you're pregnant by taking your temp. You have to be temping for a long time and acquaint yourself with your own unique body to determine if something is "different".
also i dont think im having many symptoms My breast arent darker than usually that i can tell really they kinda look darker but im afraid its all in my head! but i am dizzy when i sit up for a long time or i get up to walk around i feel light headed and dizzy its only been 5 DPO am i crazy?!
i was also wondring if.. well i know you cant take you BBT with a regular temp. taker but i mean is there anyway you can kinda guess if youre pregnant with taking your temp with a regular temp. taker?
A healthy woman has a 25% chance of becoming pregnant every cycle. Unprotected sex always carries a risk of pregnancy!
My sister has a 4 mth old son that was conceived with the pull out method. So there is a chance that it could happen. And she wasnt even trying. Good Luck and baby dust to you.
Thank you Guy! <3 i knew it could happen and i have my fingers crossed for it to happen! i just thought maybe since i was ovulating it gave me a greater chance which duh lol it does but idk im kinda confused and just hoping that i am!
anytime you have unprotected sex, you have a chance of becoming pregnant. you will have to wait and see if you miss your period
There is always a chance to get pregnant. Even though he didn't ejaculate in you there is always pre-*** that escapes. So yes there is a chance. Good luck to you.
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