What Are The Chances Of Pregnancy?

[sean55]

I started seeing a girl a few months ago--hit it off with her, really nice girl. After a while, though, I found it difficult for me to be in a relationship and had to break up with her yesterday. It was sad, but I didn't want to string her along anymore. I'd still like to be friends, though.

We had sex on two different nights, about a week apart from each other--starting about two weeks ago. They were both unprotected. She had told me she knew her cycle (that she was a "veteran" and I shouldn't worry). I trusted her, but still felt scared. I know I should have used protection and will do so in the future...I asked about an emergency pill, but she still said it wasn't necessary.

I used the withdrawal method, but it still felt close... after both times, I went to the bathroom and peed (I know at least once, almost 100% certain both times), but then a little while after had sex again for a little bit. I did not ejaculate, these times...

I am terrified that I perhaps got her pregnant, that sperm left over in my penis or pre-*** did so....I have OCD and have been thinking about it constantly. I wish I knew if I did or not, my odds, etc...

Like I said, I learned my lesson and will not be having unprotected sex again unless I am prepared to deal with potential consequences.

[Angebelle]

Agreed.  She'd probably know if she's pregnant by now.  But if you're still worried, you should make friendly contact with her to inquire how things are going.  You said you'd still like to be friends, right?  Well, here's your chance.

[tinkerbell1124]

Well it's possible, the withdrawal method isn't always going to stop a pregnancy. BUt if it was 2 weeks ago, she wouldn't know if she was. And IF she hasn;t said anything to you, STOP worrying about it.

[Tryingforbaby2]

That is really tough but unfortunately there is really no way of knowing right now. It is possible for a girl to get pregnant at any time of their cycle but it is most likely on the days they are most fertile. Without knowing her cycles it is really hard to say. I wish you the best.