Overreacting or?

[cassidy_]

So, I've had the name Zaedyn picked out for a little boy since before I was pregnant. I was texting my fiance and we both brought up the name. One of my close friends saw the message and was like "I love that name. I'm gonna name my kid that." Well, I'm pregnant and if it's a boy, the name will be Zaedyn Luke Crosby. We are currently texting and she was asking if I found out the gender yet. I haven't but she was like "I think it's a boy. We'll both be having little Zayden's running around." Should I be upset about this or? It took me forever to pick out a name I actually like and when I do, everyone crowds on top of me like "I'm gonna name my kid that too!" Ugh, any advice?

[ash060115]

If you name him zaedyn she won't.
I'd be pretty mad

[oct3014]

She probably won't because your family and everyone likes it but when her ppl ask what are you gonna name him and she says that name ppl will be like why...what's she gonna say because my friend is naming her son that!? They gonna look at her like that is not a good reason and why would you want your baby to be like someone else baby... She'll change her mind

[cassidy_]

I hope so. Thanks both of you!

[ohalie]

Is she even pregnant? I'd be pissed. But if that's the name you want and love, it shouldn't matter. Not many people are uniquely named anyway. My son is Luke, very common lol

[rebeccaann11]

I wouldn't like that !

[cassidy_]

@ohalie: no, she's not.. that's what makes the situation even worse! Ever since I told her I was pregnant, she's been all "I wanna be pregnant now!" It pisses me off.

[Zim90]

I would be pissed. And she's not pregnant on top of that? Babies aren't an accessory uggggh just punch her lol jk. Not really I would totally hit her

[cassidy_]

Oh and Luke is my fiance's older brother's name. He died about five years ago from a brain disorder. He was only 14 but that's why we chose to put Luke in our kid's name. Even though it's common, it's cute. :)

[cassidy_]

@Zim90: lol, trust me, I want to.

[Cuppicakes]

I would be upset. But maybe explain to her how you feel. If she's a good friend she will understand.

[Zim90]

That is super sweet!  :) haha just maybe verbally punch her then lol