Lost my second child need answers on why this keeps happening :.(

[nessa139]

I have lost my second child I am devastated and I do not know why this keeps happening I have been around alot of stress n arguments with relatives and alot of drama but I really do not know why this keeps happening please someone answer my questions I'm lost and I don't know what could possibly have went wrong I just wish I could hold my angels in my arms :.(

[nessa139]

It's hard and I have a reason for the first m/c it was because I feel in a ditch I just don know why it happened again :.(

[stephanie9098]

stress can deffinatly do it!! sometimes theere is something wrong with the fetus and ur body will just reject it. i had a son in 2009 and 2 miscarriages in a row after him and now pregnant with my little girl..i or 2 and sometimes 3 miscarriages is normal.. but if they continue i would definatly have some tests done..but if u r around alot of stress i would try to find a way to get around it because it does stress the fetus...keep trying!!

[steph_ut]

I too am sorry to hear that you have had multiple miscarriages. It is important to discuss it with your doctor since some women need help to carry to term (hormones, verclage, etc).

I wanted to add some hope to this thread though - a friend of mine who had 2 miscarriages since Fall 2010 is due with a seemingly very healthy baby in a few weeks!

[hotmama78]

Hun... i am exactly in the same shoes as you, i wonder why its keep happening.. not once but 5times already.. the latest one was last Jan 15 i did the stillbirth of my Baby Aidan at 21weeks... he is the longest pregnancy i ever go thru.. the rest its all about 8-10weeks... twice D&C and twice natural m/c... i done.. so when i still birth Baby Aidan i did my tube cut and burnt... unless GOD want otherwise, i am just looking forward for adoption and chasing after my other dreams such like study... open my daycare... my cafe and of cos traveling... so don't give up like me.. keep going and someday your angel will finally there in your arms... best of luck fr me... take care... hugs...xxxx Rachel.

[nessa139]

i know their like bad migrains that i keep having...

[msgorgeous]

you may need to go and get checked by a dr, you may have an infection

[nessa139]

why are some reasons this keeps happening though??? and i have been having really bad head aches and fever ever since the mis carrige and i also have a werid discharge what does this mean??

[MamaBear0612]

There are physical reasons why some women can't conceive, and there are other physical reasons why a woman might miscarry, especially repeatedly. That's why I say talk it over with your doctor. But there may be no specific reason, and it's possible that the next time everything could be perfectly fine.

[nessa139]

i mean do you think there are reasons on why this keeps happening?? because if i couldnt get pregnate then i wouldnt have been pregnate these two time i just need answers has this happened to anymoe else???

[MamaBear0612]

I know stress doesn't help but I don't think it's the explanation. A lot of women, including myself, have very stressful lives and relationships during pregnancy. Sometimes there are physical reasons for miscarriage, so it'd be good to talk it over with your doctor. Giving you a hug, sorry for your loss. :(

[MarieesMommy]

I am sooo sorry for you loss I know how you are feeling I lost my daughter and I was only 5months pregnant when I had her I miss her alot and I can only imagine how you are feeling but if you do decided to parent again just stay away from all tha stress and drama think about baby 1st and how you make him/her feel when your angry,sad, or stressed.