Seriously How Could I Not Get Pregnant...Rant cause I'm Sad.

[BTS1022]

So I am 13 DPO today...tested with kind of sorta FMU using a dollar store 25miU/ML and it was BFN. I went to Wal-Mart and picked up a 2 pack of FRER tests...pee'd on one as soon as I got home (couldn't help it) and another BFN.
I am either supposed to start today or the 21st....I have not started AF today, however I do have cramping and other AF symptoms...which I had when I got pregnant with my younger son.

I have not been on any BC since 2007 when I conceived Conner. My Boyfriend is healthy 28 years old and has 2 little boys from a previous marriage, so I know his swimmers work...well at least they did 8 years ago lol.

My LMP was Feb 19th...lasted about 4-5 days which is the norm for me. Ovulation Predictor sites said I possibly Ovulated between the 2nd through the 9th.. We BD every day...until the 10th...to be on the safe side. I really think I ovulated on the 5th of March because my sex drive was really really high (BD 5 times that day) and the Ovulation Calculator site I use said my highest fertility was the 4th and 5th.

So how could I NOT be getting pregnant? I never had an issue before, hence having 4 children already lol. How long should we actively try before I speak with an OBGYN?

I do have major AF symptoms...which I am guessing I will probably start tomorrow or the 20th. I have the lower abdominal cramping, back cramping, lots of clear kind of slimy discharge(TMI sorry)! I have been very fatigued for about 2 weeks, and have had some major nausea for at least 2 months now....

I am just at a loss.....I really really really want another baby. This will be the last baby for both of us, and we really want it to happen before we both turn 30 lol.

[BTS1022]

OMG girl it has been forever! How have you and the babies been??

I actually recalculated and I am due on the 19th...so tomorrow. Not sure if I already stated that or not lol. And if I don't start AF tomorrow I will wait until the 22nd. If I am going to start AF she should be here by the 21st, I don't think I have ever gone a 32-33 day cycle so we will see!

And yeah 5x in one day...he was pretty wiped out....No pun intended ;)

[martikadragoon]

BTS~ OMG... 5x in 1 day? my dh could never do that! I'd get lucky for 2x in 1 day.

lol. The others have given you good advice and it seems like your doing the right thing. so you know when I got my BFP with Mason, I'd tested the day before and got a bfn....

[BTS1022]

Yeah, but having a lower sperm count also increases the chance for a girl, since girl sperm usually lives longer and when a man has a lower sperm count due to a lot of BD'ing the majority left are sperm with the female chromosome. Besides we only went the 5 times once. Before and after that it was once a day.

[julianovak]

Im sorry your upset,
But when you BD every single day the "sperm" count actually gets less. Try every other day thru out the month, and the 3 days b4 Ovul. BD every nite...... :) Thats what i read somewhere........ Good luck TTC.....

[crazy84]

Do you always have that discharge?  Sorry....TMI... but I am having it too right now..... AF is about a week away I think......  But hoping that the cramps are implantation cramps since I ovulated between the 11th and the 13th.......  Good luck to you!!!

[BTS1022]

I forgot to add...I am supposed to Ovulate twice in March. The 4th-5th being the highest fertility days and I will Ovulate again on the 30th...thats if I start tomorrow.

My Luteal Phase is approx. 17 days