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143123 tn?1274300825

I just don't know what to do ! ! !

I just don't know what to do!  I am 9DPO and AF is due Monday.  I tested Tuesday and Wednesday and got BFN.  I told myself I would wait until Saturday, because I usually test 1-2 days before expected AF and always get an accurate result, well knowing that my 3rd and last test was sitting in the bathroom waiting got to me and I had to test.  BFN!!!!!  What is going on?  Is it still too early you think?  I just don't understand, I don't have problems getting pregnant when we "fly by the seat of our pants", but at the suggestion of RE, we timed it with OPK and went from there and I'm really confused if we aren't pregnant.  I'm really bummed!
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This is what I do to keep myself from testing---I wait to buy the tests!

I understand about being anxious though! I'm waiting to test tomorrow or Sat. and I JUST WANT TO RIGHT NOW! LOL!
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143123 tn?1274300825
I'm going to wait about testing again.  I wish I could just put this in the back of my mind and not worry about it and go on with my everyday life and then just wake up one day next week and test and it be positive.  But, I know that is not going to happen.  This is only my third time TTC.  The first was by pure shock, the second I just tested to be testing because we thought we missed our prime moment and found out we didn't, and now this time.  I thought deciding the time was ready to try again after our losses would be the hardest thing to do now, but this is about to get me.
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It is still too early to test. Take a test Monday!
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358126 tn?1233015617
I wish you luck, it takes time sometimes, don't give up & try not to be bummed, if it doesn't happen. But it might be still to early.
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