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676912 tn?1332812551

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Is anyone else getting irritated with themselves seeing all the BFPs? It's driving me nuts!!! I'm super excited for all the ladies getting their BFPs but I want mine too!!! Argh!!! 2ww is so long!
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470885 tn?1326329037
Like wantobeamumagain, I wish I could wave my magical wand (if such a thing existed) and give you all your BFPs.  

You know, as excited as I was when I got my BFP last month, I was also a bit guilty when I posted that I had - and this thread proves that that instinct was correct.  Plus someone posted something like "congrats - wish it was me" in response to my announcement, which deflated my sails a bit, I must admit....

I don't think it's fair that some women TTC for months and even years while others get it on the first (or second, like me) try.  I don't doubt that it's hurtful to see people pop on the board with their "I got my BPF today!!!!!" posts.  

Lots and LOTS of babydust to those who are TTC!!!  (((hugs)))

I truly believe that it happens when it is meant to - although I wish it could be more equitable of a thing...!
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I'm getting sick of people thinking I'm pregnant when I'm not but am desperately wanting to be!  I live in a small town and someone has started a rumour that I'm pregnant.  I find people staring at my stomach and asking me 'how I'm keeping'!  I wouldn't mind their stares and comments if I were pregnant, but unfortunately I'm not!  I'm starting to get a complex now because my stomachs being stared at, but I'm small and haven't put on any weight infact I've lost a bit!  Bring on the BFP!!!
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676912 tn?1332812551
Thanks we need the baby dust!
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558787 tn?1327785288
Oh ladies i wish i could give you all a bfp because i know how it feels seeing everyone pregnant and your not. It will happen and i hope it's real soon. Hugs x im giving you all some of my baby dust. x x
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676912 tn?1332812551
Good luck!!! I've got 14 days. It'll happen when it's your turn.
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505857 tn?1329681517
I'm the same my sister had her little boy 5 weeks ago, my 2 cousins both had baby girls i just found out my sisters, partners, sis in law is preggo with her 3rd.  I'm not happy i just want my BFP so much, congrats to all those ladies who got their BFP's this month but walking around the supermarket and all you see are bumps makes you feel a little more down hearted about whether it is ever going to happen, got 11 days to go before AF arrives got my fingers crossed!!!!
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676912 tn?1332812551
I think people may know too well who I am, I'm always posting SOMETHING. I just put up a new 2ww for June 9...not too many people have posted yet, but hopefully we'll get some more 2wwers.
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362249 tn?1441315018
Yup pretty annoyed I swear everytime AF comes I pop online and boom at least 5 people got their BFP!! Not that im not happy for you ladies Congrats to the ones that did get it! But im the same as you ladies I want my BFP already its been a year and half on medhelp and i have no idea who every1 is anymore and whos in the 2WW! the people i do remember have long moved on and gotten their BFP and some their 2nd BFP!! GL 2 US TTC SSBD!!
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676912 tn?1332812551
I know what you mean. But yes, we live in S Korea, leaving next May. 11 months and counting!!! And we have NO clue where we will be going next. I like it here, they're so nice, sometimes too nice. They love my son because he's a blue eyed blondie, they always want to hold him.
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Oh you live there?? nicee! my aunt was just there and she loved it! i might become your neighbor in some months (might be moving to Japan).
I know, i feel bad for being jealous, but darn it lol! worst part is that im sure LOTS of them didn't even try it! i feel like a sucker for obsessing so much about this, i even dreamed i was pregnant and thats the first time ive ever dreamed about that!!
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676912 tn?1332812551
It's not just Philadelphia, it's everywhere else too, even here in S Korea...I love seeing their cute pregnant bellies but I hate it too.
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Haven't you noticed that EVERYBODY seems to be pregnant around you? Im telling you, I didn't know Philadelphia was the hot spot for pregnant women. They are EVERYWHERE. argh!
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