I use a diaphragm BC birth control makes me very sick and it has always worked. No hormones and you don't even feel it when you have sex neither does he. So its just like having sex without a condom but you are using protection!
I had the shot for many years and the only thing I got was headaches. Birth control to me just comes with so many damn side effects it doesn't seem to be worth it. The mirena proved to be hell for me.
I've never personally had depo, but two of my friends have had awful hormonal experiences. One became severely depressed and the other very angry/agitated. They both felt uninterested in sex, which one usually doesn't go crazy about, but the other (before depo) had quite a healthy labido.
Yeah i had depo for about a yr and a half and had no labido then switched to nuva ring with the same problem and super bitchy. In order to save my relationship i went off bc for a.few months to let my body get normal again and that is when i got prego. Thinking of a more perm bc after this one. Debating on getting tubes tied but im omly 24 but i have.2 kids including this preg and i feel like im done but just nervous