I think you should make an appointment with your OBGYN to find out what is going on. 13 days is a long time. Good luck!
i'll be honest about home preg kits, i bought a clear blue tester it said negative and i was 4 months gone, im mot trying to scare you, mine are like clockwork, you are better doing a test at docs, it could be stress that causes them to be late or absent, r u on any birth control?