You should wait a little longer to have sex in my opinion. 3 weeks isn't long enough to heal especially if your still discharging. That's why they tell you to wait at least 6 weeks.
You should stop within a week. And I say it depends how you feel down there. Its your body so you can tell. With my first I waited 4 weeks and just went slow to make sure. But I had stopped bleeding and it felt normal. Well except I was super tight because I hadn't had sex in 4 weeks haha. My doctor said 4-6 weeks.
Noo girl right after u have your baby u bleed then u start your period right after.
Im still bleeding lightly but its felt normal since 1 week. I never tore, the only thing that ever hurt was the taint swelling. That went away long ago.
Not everyone starts their period right after.
Well I'd say go slow. Just make sure he washes before hand because after I did it the first time I got a yeast infection.