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5110781 tn?1378361950

Prego And Going To The Club

Honestly how do women/girls think its okay, i understand if your like 3-4 mnths maybe with hubby/bf but theres some 7-8 mnths and clubbing and DRINKING!!!
Its dangerous to be that big and in that kind of enviroment, theres always fights or bottles being thrown
I dont think they should be allowed in and if so atleast not served alcohol.....
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Yes I'm a bartender as well and I can have the right to refuse sale to anybody!.
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5780464 tn?1374380306
I'm a bartender also, where I work we can refuse service to anyone. We even have a sign up stating that.
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I have no respect for women who drink while pregnant, my sisterinlaw has fetal alcohol syndrome because her biological mom drank and did drugs and it's so heartbreaking watching an 11 year old function at the level of a 6 year old because her brain just can't compute things.
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3360193 tn?1365871889
Sarah where do you stay - here in the UK although we can't stop anyone buying alcohol unless they're already intoxicated, we can refuse to serve anyone that we don't want to sell to x
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5496415 tn?1373500207
Same in mn.I'm a bartander and legally I can't refuse a pregnant girl a drink. . It stupid
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Congrats btw raven :)
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What really ***** is here in Washington its actuall illegal to refuse a pregnant woman a drink. And yes, you read that right. By law, if a pregnant woman orders a drink you are not allowed to say no. It's stupid. I don't think clubbing in the first few months would be a bad thing, as long as you're careful and stay smart. I'm hoping to go sometime really soon. Just one last time before I can't anymore haha.
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5554398 tn?1373571843
I had a friend who always went to the bar with us when she was pregnant and was always the dd. Theres nothing wrong with going out while pregnant (it's the last free time you have!) but no one should be drinking if they're pregnant!
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3360193 tn?1365871889
Lol one every so often fair enough, but not drinking a couple bottles of wine a week, every week, or every day in some respects.   FAS is not fair on the baby x
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I still go to the bar. I obviously don't drink though lol but it's nice to get out and socialize. I get some crazy looks though.
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5627474 tn?1374148775
I had a friend who would drink one glass of wine sometimes while pregnant. I didn't judge. Its not like she was getting trashed. But she tried convincing me to try some alcoholic whatever she had even after I told her I can live without even a sip. That kindof offended me.
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3360193 tn?1365871889
They don't have laws like that here.   I was in the pub whilst pregnant as there were a couple functions we went to, but although I bought drink for Lee, I stuck to fresh orange or diet cola.   /but yeah if you know you're pregnant then you should grow up and be more responsible, stop smoking and drinking to give your baby the opportunity to reach its full potential.   In my line of work I've seen babies born to mothers who drink regularly wjilst pregnant or take drugs, asnd the effects are awfulm seeing babies go through withdrawals is awful.   If the mums were to see that before theirkids wre born they would think twice x
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There actually trying to pass a law now here that pregnant women not be served or sold alcohol or tobacco products
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Wow I can't believe a person would do that!! I went to clubs and parties all turn time and drank before I got pregnant most 19year Olds do lol but when I found out I was pregnant I stopped Yeah I missed go out and drinking but I couldn't even imagine doing anything that could hurt my baby and now that my daughter is her (((she is 2 days old))) I don't even think about going out I just want to spend all my time with her. I feel soo sorry for the babies that have mom's that are drinking while pregnant and doing other bad things while pregnant to those mom's if you thought you were grown up enough to have sex then you should be grown up enough to handle the consequence of your actions.... people these days:( smdh
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That's the thing with free choice unfortunately! It allows for many to do the right thing, but you still get those that do the wrong thing and there is nothing anyone can do about it! It gets me mad too, believe me!
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3360193 tn?1365871889
Some people just shouldn't be mothers x
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5110781 tn?1378361950
Iv seen some before and this past weekend thiis girl was being talked about on fb because she was at the club and drinking, with a huge belly
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You saw some drinking alcoholic beverage!??????
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