ftm and delivery

[crazymom9]

I think about this all day and I sure ftm mom do to. I think about the day I have to push this baby out or if I will have to get a c section how much pain will I be in or will I rip? How do I know it time to go to the hospital?.... maybe I'm just thinking to much

[crazymom9]

I know I have to get him out one way or another but I'm just thinking on the how but I guess once I see his face nothing else will matter

[fazg100]

I know how u feel i think the same too, but then i put it out of my mind n concentrate on the baby i will getting at the end of it all! U cant prepare for it so no point in worrying! :)

[Franky91]

Ano what u mean I would rather have a painful natural birth with the chance of ripping and possiably pooin myself than get a c section, I hope im strong enough to push the baby to have a natural birth coz if ur not strong enough and they think the babies stressed then they will carry out a c section I heard

[rachyrou]

I promise you are feelin compltely normal.things :) but honestly.. when it happens you'll be fine. Your body takes over and you just deal with it :). If you want a vaginal delivery tell them that's important to you and you inky want a c section if there's an emergency. I gave birth vaginally, I tore, had a lot of stitches and a graze. It was sore but nothing you can't cope with..plus you're too distracted by your baby to think about it too Mich. Oh and for me pushing was the easiest part. You'll be fine. I'm.nervous and I'm on ny second. Anxiety and worries are a normal part of it all.

[chelsgr87]

I think all moms think of all this.  I'm on 3 and wonder how this one will go.  But unfortuantely all we can do is wonder until the time really comes.  You will be okay tho.   Its do-able lol

[hayang]

dude. getting a c section is like my hugest fear in the whole birthing process. i've seen six babies be born vaginally and idk the thought of a c section is horrifying to me.
also, i think i'm probably gonna be the kind of mom that goes in nd gets sent home like 40 times before the actual labor starts lol. you're definitely not thinking too much. i think about this allll the time
hubby says "idk what the big deal is. you just gotta pop the baby out and you're done with it" HA!