On the 13 of july, I was 14 wks prego, I was told I was going to miscarry and the baby had not made it past 7 wks. ON Thurs,30july, I had the actually miscarriage. So I am wondering what day do I use as the miscarriage day, I don't want to call it an anniversary but I want to have rememberance time every year and I'm not sure what day to use. Like I said I was 14 wks when I found out but had the miscarriage at 16 wks 4 days. So what day do I remember? the day I found out the baby was no longer there, the day the baby was marked at 7 wks or the day I had the acutal miscarrage?