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Racist and Rude People

Ok im a ftm with my first baby girl due on sept 24th. Im part black and haitian snd im getting really annoyed how my bfs mom says she hopes my baby done come out haitian because haitians are crazy like ummmmmm im part haitian and im not crazy i think she is so rude and alil racist because not all haitians are crazy. Am i being a lil over the top ?
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Your bf needs to stick up for u.
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Well i do and she says she is just tellng the truth but she only dose it because she doesnt like my mom because my mom is a full blooded haitian
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Why don't you just tell her it hurts your feelings when she makes jokes like that.  If she isn't joking it might embarrass her into not saying it anymore.
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I have Indian in me & when I got pregnant w my first, my MIL said ohh lord hes gonna be so brown... she was just kidding obviously bc I have more white than Indian. Lol. Hes now 4 and she says we have the prettiest skin. And we tan so easily. Lol..
I think in your case, she was joking as well.
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No she ment it she has been acting like this seens i got pregnant i just walk away and ignore her
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Maybe, it sounds like she's just joking to me.
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Maybe she just said it to get u mad. Mine says rude things too but she is his mom and u have to be the bigger person sometimes
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No you are not
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