Why some just so not sensitive.. :(

[hotmama78]

What to say to a friend who come visit you knowing you are lossing a little angel.. but all the topic she talk was... you know this and that daughter and son already can walking.. talking... very cute.. very this and that... yet when i comment something using some words to high light her this is not the time to tell me all this she say why am i being so rude??? OMG... then adding to my scar... OMG your tummy flat so soon... it was so big before and you go so skinny very fast... i really feel like throwing her out fr my room door...!!!!

I am not mad over other friends baby grown happy healthy and well in fact i was very happy for them... but i just not wish some close friends come and visit me and give me all this kind topic to chat about for time being... am i bad for being so offends over the topic she bring up??? arrrgggggg....!!!!

[kfrasher]

Oh hun, I've been following your story, and it just breaks my heart.:(.....maybe she didn't know what to say because she feels  guilty about having her kids when you have just lost yours!     I have a good friend that has had many miscarriages and I feel guilty because everytime I have been pregnant, she was too and she always lost her baby!! I always thought why do I keep mine and she looses hers?? I always felt guilty!  Maybe your friend just didn't know what to do? But I feel for you, hun!! You are such a strong woman!! ;-)

[stacey10]

your feelings are very normal and she has been very insensitive towards you and what you have been through, in saying that, she may also not know how to act around you and  she may also be at a loss as to what to say to you, still birth is a topic that alot of people do find uncomfortable talking about as it is a very sad thing to have to go through, you have been doing a fantastic job with voicing your feelings and love for your baby Aidan, so she may have found it hard as was trying to act as normal as possible for fear of upsetting you..... either that or she was just being an insensitive witch, your a wonderfully strong women, and try not to let this person get to you, hugs xx