Well kids dont make it very easy. For example, my3 year old refuses to sleep before 12 am.. And sometimes she wont sleep even after that and we have tried everything. So once she is sleeing and its 2 am i no longer want to have sex because im exhausted. So.. Its harder to be intimate in my case. We havent gone to the movies together because bringing a small child is impossible. (except drive in is pretty cool to brings kids) we are having our second baby and we know its gonna be hectic for our love life but in the end we just glad it is going to be over with while were young, that way (years from now) when im 29 my daughter will be 10 and my son will be 7 and things will get easier. We can take family trips and do fun stuff as a family. But i have to say we still go camping with our daughter no matter what age so camping is really fun with any age kids
I just hope we can find some way to balance everything and not strain our relationship too much.