This is something to discuss with your Dr/midwife. There are safe ways to have an assisted home birth for mom and baby :) it is completely up to you and your Dr what you feel is best
In all honesty I think it is up to whatever you feel most comfortable doing there is going to be risk no matter how or which way You give birth so in my opinion I think it is totally up to you. Bc it will be a day you will never forget so you want to make it special I totally understand.
Don't do a home birth. That small percent chance that something goes wrong is not worth the risk. There's a reason women started giving birth in hospitals.
I think you should rethink it. So many things could go wrong with you and the baby, or just the baby. Being in a hospital may thwart some of those instances. Whereas having a home birth would not allow crucial seconds it may take in a hospital to save one of your lives. I think it is selfish personally,but if it's something you're okay with risking then by all means don't let anyone detour you from it. It's your life and your baby.