What Do You Guys Think??

[Des92]

So for those of you that don't already know, I had a miscarriage last year at 12 weeks and 3 days.. but I am almost 100% sure the baby died weeks before I actually past it.  Anyways, with that being said I have been horrified my entire pregnancy this time because I really can never go through something like that again.  It has been hard to get my hopes up in fear to be heartbroken again.  Well.. I am now 15 weeks and 2 days (since it's after midnight)  yesterday I went to my doctors appointment and they felt my uterus they said they do feel growth and then they listened to the heartbeat via doppler it was 160 bpm.  I had my first ultrasound at 7 weeks and I seen and heard the heartbeat then too and it was at 136 bpm at that time.  I sometimes think that I might feel flutters!  My question is:  What do you guys think?  Do you think it's safe for me to get excited now?  What do you guys think my chances are of having another miscarriage?  I wish I could just listen to the heartbeat all day, it's the best sound in the world!  Thanks!!  :))

[glittergirl88]

15 weeks is pretty much in the clear. The odds of having a miscarriage now are way way way less than before 12 weeks. I know how you feel though. I had a miscarriage one month before I got pregnant with this baby. I've had to fight myself to stay positive and to remember to have faith and know that this little baby has a mission and whatever it may be it will change my life for the better. Sometimes I think I had the miscarriage so that I would appreciate this baby that much more. Don't lose hope. Your sweet baby will be here soon. And you just might be feeling the baby move! I felt mine move at 14 weeks! Its amazing, and the weeks to come will only amaze you more. Best of luck to you and your sweet little one.

[Des92]

Well, they said they COULD feel my growth in my uterus lol.  They felt it growing upwards.  I am just so worried.  160 bpm is normal.. right?

[lilbit_17]

I wouldn't worry! Hearing that heartbeat is all that matters. Feeling from the outside for growth isnt accurate either....trust me. The only way to determine appropriate growth is through a sono. Don't let them scare you. I'm sure everything is going just perfect!

[KingWife]

Hi Des92! Be as happy as you can now!!! Don't be afraid! I had a miscarriage 9 months prior to this pregnancy and felt freaked out by losing this baby too but I found peace of mind when I prayed and I asked God for guidance. My husband has been a huge encouragement too, Helping me to feel more at ease and blessed with this baby. Stress free is the key to a healthy pregnancy & God. I am now 18 wks and going strong. I have faith that this baby will be safe. I hope you can find comfort soon to stop worrying about the previous loss. Good luck hun!

[tmmooreusmc]

I had a miscarriage 4 month before this pregancy at 6w5d. I am now 29 weeks! 15 weeks is a pretty great chance you'll be in the clear. It's the second trimester. Best wishes. Buy a fetal Doppler to listen to the heartbeat yourself if you like. :)

[Sundae254]

Honestly u never know. I was in the same situation though. Got my hopes up and never got to hear or see baby. Well a Month later got another chance and today in 21w6d :) I'm excited and I have faith. Don't stress or worry, have faith and pray cause God is always in control. Good luck :)