Work stress....

[jessielynn2014]

My fiance and I just found out tuesday that we are expecting. The pregnancy test I took estimated how far i was and it said 1-2 weeks. I am working 2 jobs, go to college, and we have a 6 year old. This is my first pregnancy and I am very scared that the strees in my life will make me miss carry. All I have ever wanted was to be a mom, I grew up (between 3 and 17) with out a my mom. What are ways that i can destress my self but doesnt require a lot of my time, simply because i have no spare time. Thanks to all who reply in advance!!!  

[jessielynn2014]

Well mine is easy to please. Lol i have already started the hungry thing.... its like non stop. I want to be the healthy i work out until my baby comes kind of mom but will power is not my strong suite. I have a friend who is willing to help me... so wish me luck! Lol

[nabilahazrul]

By last time i meant my first trimester. I lost so much weight i was lighter than i had been before i was pregnant. Now towards the end of my second trimester ive started eating and now its becoming non stop. I have that w my hubs when id want something but doesnt really go with his taste. Probly cook one and the other one take out? So u really dont have to fix multiple meals.just a suggestion. Sometimes i got so fed up thinking what to fix for dinner i end up getting my hubs call the pizza or mcdonalds.

[nabilahazrul]

Well,depends whatever food you could take hun. Last time i couldnt even take in anything or smell some foods. I was planninv to do that healthy preg diet thing but sometimes it comes to a point where u really dont have a choice. Chocolates is my happy food. I have it everyday but also aside i make sure i eat some healthy food too and i take supplements to get whatever it is im lacking. I know some moms here go for fast foods like cheesy nachos,or burger king etc. Spoil yourself at times and balance it with healthy food too:) dont feel too guilty. Eat what makes you feel happy.

[jessielynn2014]

When you say food that makes me feel good as in healthy or whatever makes me happy at the moment. And what if I have stress at home? Our Six year old seems to oly want to eat chicken nuggets and pizza all the time, and I am not the one to fix multiple meals. We try to fix things that we know arent going to be an extreme battle but she has her days.

[nabilahazrul]

Get enough sleep.. make sure whatever stress u have outside dont bring it home or to bed. Try have fun or happy times w ur family because happiness is antidepressant. U cant possibly be stressed about being happy:) and eat nice food that makes you happy.just be cool and dont think too much.. especially the miscarry part.