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Im 40w2d and so depressed. I went to the drs yesterday and got my second membrane sweep but was only 2cm and 50% effaced. If i dont have my baby before sunday i go in to b induced. Im just so tired of my mil calling and saying "did u have the baby" and laughing. Its like she knows i didnt bc shes the one coming over here to watch our 3 year old. She thinks its all a joke. Ughh i am just so tired of it all. Cant i just fall asleep until sunday please?
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Thts soo funny. I could pure imagine the women thinkin oh no wat hav i said. Yeah none of us can understand how she didnt no. She was 5wks early aswell and hes a healthy boy. But anytime i see them they always say u not had it yet? Well do u see a baby???? Lol
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3360193 tn?1365871889
Thanks mommylove21 :) - I hope I'll be making an announcement shortly

Abigailsmomma - poor you, hope you're not in pain for too much longer :)

Hahaha maybaby :)  thats bad, they can't compare you to someone that didn;t even know they were pregnant (although having been pregnant now I have NO idea how someone could not know lol)      I got so annoyed with strangers touching my bump when I was out and about and asking when I was due, one woman gave it a good firm touch / push and said aww when are you due......I was having a bad day so I feigned ignorance and asked her what she meant, was she implying that I was fat? hahaha x
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Ooh i totaly understand how anoyin it is wen people say u not had it yet! Wat made thngs worse was my best friends sister had a baby in jan and didnt no she was pregnant and so ther whole family always say u not had it yet. And said ooh she bet u to it. I was like well she didnt even no she was pregnant.
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I'm only 33+2 and I feel like I'm friggen 39w I just want my little girl out. I've been having regular contractions and losing my plug but I still don't want her here to early. My OB thinks they got my due date wrong which at this point I agree because this false labour is kicking my butt. I'm so tired all the time. I've only been awake for 4 hours and I'm ready to go back to bed lol. I feel your pain ladies! Hope your little ones are here soon!
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Hey ladies. Congrats on your bundle of joys. I hope your babies come soon i guess your tummy is too comfortable. I hope to see some posts sayin that your babies were born. Congrats again i wish you all safe deliverys and healthy babies.
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Ik my mil is always like all my kids came early and they were so small (my dr thinks I'm having a 9 pound boy lol) and i just want to b like well good for u!!! Lol i dont care >:-O lol and im tired of hearing it lol
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Hahaha sometimes I feel like saying yeah I've had the baby, I've just left it at home to come up to the shops, and this huge stomach is just fat.......just to see what they say lol.   Its like hello, I've clearly not had it yet so why ask??   Then it gets dead depressing when people say whens it due and I reply "last month" lol :(      I've gutted my house so many times these last few weeks, now I'm just exhausted lol x
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Lol i know! Im just tired of ppl asking r u STILL pregnant. Its like uhmm obviously! Im really sore and tired now too. I was nesting and cleaning with all the energy i had a couple weeks ago but now im just depressed so i think it's making me tired lol. Babies can b so stubborn
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Haha yeah I think I'm too warm and cosy for it, it doesn't want to come out into our cold Scottish weather lol.    I know its normal to go overdue, nut its frustrating cause the Dr and my MW didn't think that I would make 36 weeks, never mind my due date...wo while I'm grateful it's had time to cook properly, its at that stage that it REALLY needs to come out lol xx
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Sometimes it takes a while with my first i was a week over due. Just relax dont stress .
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It must b cozy in our tummies lol
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3360193 tn?1365871889
Lol I'm getting to the same point...I';ll find out tomorrow when I'm getting Induced so that's when I'll be focusing on as having baby...I soubt very much he / she will make an appearance on his / her own x
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Ik im not even counting on labor coming on its own. Im just waiting for sunday to come
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I know, it would be so much less stressful if babies just arrived on their due dates lol.   I just want to hold my little Munchkin for the first time, and meet who has been making me feel miserable for these last 9 months lol.   Its so discouraging, I feel awful cause that's 2 sweeps I've had now and although I'm 2cm dilated, I don't feel like I';m any further forward :( x
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Im sry u feel this way too! We just want to meet and cuddle our babies <3 its a little discouraging when they r late
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3360193 tn?1365871889
i know exactly how you feel!!!!!! I'm 40+6, had my second sweep y/day and I ws only 2cm dilated, going back on Friday for a 3rd one - the last onethey will do.    MW is calling tomorrow with an induction date because over here they won't book you in for an induction until you're 7 days overdue...then it'll be at Sunday at the earliest cause they like to wait til your at least 10 days overdue before they actually induce you :/    i just want tthis to be over :(     I feel like I've been hit by a truck, I feel so nauseous and baby is  STILL not showing any signs of coming out x
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