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[mumsy1977]

THE THING IV REALISED ABOUT THIS FORUM IS THAT IF YOUR IN THE "CLICK" YOUR QUESTIONS GET ANSWRED IF NOT THEN YOU GOT NO CHANCE OF HEARING ANYTHING WHILE I REALISE SOME OF THE POSTS ARE TO DO ITH PREGNACY OTHER STUFF ISNT BUT THEN STILL THERE QS GET ANSWERD !!!!! I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND IV POSTED 3MAYBE 4 QS NOW AND DELETED THEM AS NOONE SEEMED INTERESTED THE ONLY POST ANYONE COMMENTED ON WAS THE BFP  SO GO GIVE YOURSELVS A HUG AND HAVE FUN IGNORING ALL THE OTHERS THAT ARE NOT IN THE "CLICK"

[mumsy1977]

THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENT TOO AND THE ABOVE POST APPLIES TO YOU TOO IF YA NEED AN ONLINE BUDDY AL DO MY BEST FOR YOU AND ANSWER ANY QS :)


TO EVERYONE ELSE
I FEEL LIKE PEOPLE SAW THIS POST AND THEN LOOKED AT MY OTHER POST AND ANSWERED IT OUT OF PITY! I DONT NEED YOUR PITY I WANTED ADVICE AND ALTHO I GOT SOME I WOULD OF PREFERRED IT TO HAVE BEEN COS PEOPLE WANTED TO ANSWER IT NOT BECAUSE THEY FELT THEY HAD TO  BUT THANX ANYWAY

[vacuumprincess]

the random questions about relationships & such get lots of replies because ANYONE can answer them.  You don't have to be pregnant, been pregnant or any of that to answer that stuff...  everyone can get involved.  I didn't get it at first either.  I thought this forum was black & white.  either you were pregnant or trying.  that is not the case at all.  If you just have an intrest in pregnancy, been pregnant, trying, not trying, have grown children.... it doesn't matter.  Everyone has knowledge that can be passed on.

pregnancy, ttc or parenting questions take some sort of background knowledge on the specific topic that not everyone has.  I doubt your postswere intentionally ignored.  I have asked questions & gotten tons of responses.  I have also asked & gotten none.  sometime is it the subject that no body knows about.

like I stated before... timing is a big thing.  If nobody is around that knows the answer... bump it to the top later on.  

[Djan2011]

That's a really good point the random questions about relationships & such get lots of replies because ANYONE can answer them."  so i guess i was being selfish thinking people should know what im going through and how to help or hat i should do. lol Thank you for pointing that out! now i feel kind of silly

[vacuumprincess]

no one Has to answer anything. We only answer because we WANT to.  Nobody is getting paid to answer(I don't think).  The answers came because others WANTED to help you with your questions. Perhaps others looked to see what you asked because the missed it before.  I don't think there is any pity.

I have been off here quite a bit because of the holiday( in US here).  I have been really busy & not on med help, so that is wht I missed it I'm sure.  I also did not look up your posts, cause I thought you said you deleeted them???

[SunWorshiper_26]

I just answered one of your posts but I hadn't read this post yet I just came to it as I was going through and answering posts. Now I'm reading this one an I see that your last post had many comments. I think that with your last post because you were asking if anyone else had gone through it that many won't post bc they haven't been through it.

Anytime I'm on here i answer as many posts as I can. I'm on my cell so I can't immediately tell who has even asked the question but then again it doesn't matter. I answer if I know the answer if I notice someone hasn't answered and the person posted a while ago i try and post that I don't know but I did read it that way they don't feel ignored.

You have to remember too that the last week was hectic for most bc of the holiday. But I don't think that it is fair of you to say that people are doing this to you on purpose. I'm no click kind of girl never have been never will be and I always treat others how i would want to be treated and I think that is very important in this forum!

[mumsy1977]

then shouldnt that be on a diff forum as im posting PREGNANCY18-34 and thought people entered the forum either full of knowladge or wanting answers in that department