divorce...

[mrs_araujo]

So my husband is on my last nerve! I'm done with it we've been together since February 21, 2011 got married February 25, 2013. All he does is blame everything on me constantly picking fights!  He's always right and I'm wrong Im done with it all, idk what to do at this point besides divorce, but then what happens after divorce????  We have a 1 year old and I'm 17+1 with our 2nd what happens in court about custody??  Anyone been through this?? I have taken care of our daughter 24/7 since day one and I have even left him and stayed in a women's shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again!  Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?  

[sdvargas]

Sorry you're going through this.
I hope things get better for you. Im from Virginia as well.

[KDQ]

I will suggest not to make this decison til after baby comes. Let the hormones settle. When my hubby and I got married in 2009 the sh*t hit the fan. We finally realized we needed to be as open and honest with each other and open non judgmental communtication was the only thing that got up through. Try to figure out if your marraige is salvagable before jumping to divorce.

[mrs_araujo]

I'm in Virginia and it was like this my last pregnancy too! I know I'll end up with PPD again because he doesn't help or seam to care...

[shwils]

Im sorry!:/ i wish you luck& the best for you& your kids!(: no woman deserves that!!!!

[jessikaM]

Is it always like that? Because with my first pregnancy and this one we tended to argue a lot more. I felt like beating him up at times. Whenever I'm pregnant we get into it really bad when we argue. But we get over it after awhile

[Ashdub07]

What state are you in??

[mommygg]

I havent been thru this but all I can say is, good luck and do what makes, u happy hope things get better for u